lil_unique_me Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 Ok, so me and my bf have been together 8 months, we love each other etcetc. My problem lies here, usually all we do is talk, well a lot of the time, like when im on break at work we text, when im home he's either at mine or we're on MSN, Phone etc. But I dont know, since New Years Eve, we've barely talked and despite me asking if we are growing apart he denies that we are. I mean I dont wanna break up with the guy so i really dont know what to do. Suggestions? xx Link to comment
_Asti_ Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 Maybe its been overkill for the last little while. Leave some space to let the relationship grow a little. You can smother the relationship, and for some people and some relationships TOO much can cause the opposite effect of what you want. Take a step back, cut back on the talking, give yourselves a day break here and there..allow some space to miss each other and build back up the desire to talk and see each other. Its a common problem and easily fixable. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 do you guys go do anything or experience anything together to talk about? Link to comment
lil_unique_me Posted January 5, 2009 Author Share Posted January 5, 2009 No, not really. I'm always working and tired when i get home. We never even really go for a walk really. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 you need to experience more together. Link to comment
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