Pappers Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 So I've just realized that my bf has me on his limited profile list on facebook. I can't access any tagged photos of him. We've been dating for 4 months, so this is a new relationship. Do you think he is hiding something? I wonder what he doesn't want me to see. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 Once again.. Facebook is causing problems. It really is more of a hassle than anything when in a relationship.. with that said. Have you asked him why? Link to comment
Love_Music Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 Good ol' Facebook. Does he have a Myspace too? More then likely he does. IMO, those sites just cause WAY too many problems. If it bothers you, then I would definitely ask him why he has you set on limited access. Link to comment
Smoothie58 Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 He should not have his girlfriend on a "limited" profile list. Obviously there is something he is hiding and that is just not fair. I would ask him about it! Link to comment
TBE_1989 Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 Once again.. Facebook is causing problems. It really is more of a hassle than anything when in a relationship.. with that said. Have you asked him why? This should be posted as a sticky in every section of this forum, lol. He probably put you there accidentally or forgot to remove you when you started dating. If everything else is fine in the relationship then this is no biggie. Just take a look at these forums - there are so many threads on people having anxiety about Facebook/Myspace/Bebo. I know it's easier said than done (second day in a row I'm upset that my ex didn't look at my page but, it really isn't worth it....urgh, I'll refrain myself from a major rant, for now Ask him about it, but - please- don't turn it into a big deal and don't let it cause conflict or anxiety in your relationship. Link to comment
selkie Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 facebook only causes problems if youre dealing with people who are hiding their cheating ways. great way to know the truth ! Link to comment
Shudder Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 facebook = drama people who like drama like facebook. Link to comment
Pappers Posted January 4, 2009 Author Share Posted January 4, 2009 facebook = drama people who like drama like facebook. I use it to keep in touch with my friends... most of them live around the world so I find it really useful. It's not about drama... Anyway, I will simply ask him about it. My ex was a very sneaky guy so I do not tolerate anything sneaky anymore with new relationships. Link to comment
TBE_1989 Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 facebook only causes problems if youre dealing with people who are hiding their cheating ways. great way to know the truth ! I beg to differ. It causes problems as you never know what was ''really meant'' by X comment or lack of comment or being blocked or being deleted or being added or whatever. Link to comment
LanceVanceDance Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 Ask him, but it might not be a big deal. It might just be partying pics he doesn't want you to see because he doesn't want you to see him drunk, or other similar things. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 You know in any NORMAL relationship (a relationship minus the whole hoop-lah of facebook/myspace) you wouldn't have this insecurity or "worry" about a bf/gf having "hidden" photos, why you ask? Because people are going to be secure in their relationship aren't going to be worried about their bf/gf's actions on a networking website. It really is quite ridiculous and people put so much faith into what happens on these sites. I have seen so many 'healthy' (maybe not so much?) relationships go down here because an argument caused by something that happened or was said on myspace/facebook. "OMG I'm not on my bf's top friends list our relationship is doomed" Link to comment
Ariel85 Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 Either it is an innocent oversight on his part, OR, he has something to hide. Ask him. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 how is the relationship 'in person'? Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 So I've just realized that my bf has me on his limited profile list on facebook. I can't access any tagged photos of him. We've been dating for 4 months, so this is a new relationship. Do you think he is hiding something? I wonder what he doesn't want me to see. F face book or myspace! i pretty much ended things with my girl based on something i saw on her myspace yesterday. i could have over reacted, or not but regardless there is too much negative influence and assumptions on these sites! Link to comment
confused25 Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 So I've just realized that my bf has me on his limited profile list on facebook. I can't access any tagged photos of him. We've been dating for 4 months, so this is a new relationship. Do you think he is hiding something? I wonder what he doesn't want me to see. I have a facebook and I was not aware that you can set profile access by users on your friends list? Are you sure you are just not being paranoid? or maybe there's something wrong with his page. Link to comment
mr_iwi Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 If you've only just realised that you are on limited, there is a chance that he hasn't realised it either. Of course, it is possible that there are pictures of him with exes or whatever that he'd like to "tidy up" before you stumble upon them. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 I have a facebook and I was not aware that you can set profile access by users on your friends list? Are you sure you are just not being paranoid? or maybe there's something wrong with his page. I don't have facebook but I was wondering something like this as well. Is it possible he has it blocked to everyone and not just you? How did you know? does it tell you? Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 facebook = drama people who like drama like facebook. It amazes me how people all want to put the blame on a networking site rather then the individuals involved. If a problem like this is occurring on facebook...and facebook did not exist, I'm willing to bet a problem would arise in some other fashion. If two people are in a healthy relationship, and they both have a facebook it really shouldn't make any difference whatsoever. Link to comment
selkie Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 I have a facebook and I was not aware that you can set profile access by users on your friends list? Are you sure you are just not being paranoid? or maybe there's something wrong with his page. I love how crackbook lets me finetune who sees what (i dont wnat my JOB to see some silly stuff) you go to settings and click privacy settings Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 6, 2009 Share Posted January 6, 2009 I love how crackbook lets me finetune who sees what (i dont wnat my JOB to see some silly stuff) you go to settings and click privacy settings LOL that is what it should be renamed Link to comment
lady00 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 If he has a fuller profile that you do not have access to, then yes, he is hiding something. I can't say whether or not this is good or bad, but if he has opted to only let you access part of his profile while showing the full profile to others, then as a matter of fact he is hiding something from you that he is sharing with others. Who knows what that means though. Hiding elements of a profile is not necessarily malicious or indicative of bad faith. Link to comment
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