jerk chicken Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I broken up with my bf recently, and while its not the number 1 thing on my list i have been wondering if im going to go mad from having no sex. i would never do anything casual such as a f buddy or one night stand even if i got really really hornybut my bf used 2 please me the best i have ever been pleasured. now im not going to be having sex for a loooooooong time. do u get used to it? is it best to just keep busy? Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 If people can quite smoking then I am sure you will be able to survive quite well without sex...did you go mad prior to having sex with this guy...did you go mad as a child (presumably you weren't having sex then). People do indeed survive and thrive without sex. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Keep busy, maybe buy a toy. There's nothing worse than going from lots of sex regularly to none. Link to comment
alli Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Keep busy, maybe buy a toy. There's nothing worse than going from lots of sex regularly to none. I second this. Buy a vibrator. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 i USUALLY tend to just keep busy. if the break up was hard on me, i tend to not be able to even want sex for a month, sometimes more. i get new hobbies, etc. that's just b/c i am not into f buddies and dont enjoy sex alone (aka masterbating). Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 I am at over nine months and I might be a little goofy once in a while but I am not crazy. I have gotten used to having Smurf Balls!!! LOL It will take some time but you will be okay. lost Link to comment
Taomagicdragon Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 Keep busy, maybe buy a toy. There's nothing worse than going from lots of sex regularly to none. Murder's worse. Find a hobby, buy a toy, or pursue an interest (career, sport, etc). Link to comment
blue69 Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 Good opportunity to learn your own body. Don't rely on someone else to be the best or make you feel the best. Each lover will be different and unique. The only constant is you. And why wont you be having sex for a loooooooong time? Does no interest in casual sex equal a long time before having it again? Link to comment
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