male2008 Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 ok so you can read my previous threads. Me and my ex now, just broke up. It was a weird break up. We still have feelings but this is the 3rd time we try. It dosent seem to work. Last try was not good but it was both faults. The last breakups where because of her mistakes and not enough feelings. We spoke together earlier to day couldnt get a conclusion, then we met up tonight, it was very emotional and we decided to breakup, we cried and cried. Then when I was leaving we started talking and kissing. We made out and sleept together, spoke about previous experince in our relationship and jokes. I left with us feeling much better, stil broken up. But not crying. Now Im sitting at home, Im feeling * * * * and lonely and sad. I feel like I wont find anyone I love as much as her or that will love me. I know Im 27 years old still young. Now I feel my self thinking about mabey she wasent so bad or I was making unfair requests from her. Im thinking about her and I feel myself thinking about getting her back. I mean we love eachother, cant we make it work? Or am I just lonely and desperate. Is it useal to glorify our ex-partner? Mabey I didnt try hard enough. Pleas advice Link to comment
Elsewhere Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Yea I never understand when I hear such thing: "we love each other but we can't be together". I believe love can fight anything! If you have love, you have understanding, patience, forgiveness and hope. How can you fail with all of these? Link to comment
male2008 Posted January 3, 2009 Author Share Posted January 3, 2009 dude I dont know, mabey its not love, but that we care for eachother. Mabey its love, or it was love and now its what ever is left after 3 breakup. Im just confused now cant sleep its 4 in the morning. Link to comment
Elsewhere Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 If it wasn't worth it you wouldn't go through all this - you would just move on, thousands other girls in this world right? You care about your exes (at least some of them lol) yet you don't think about them till 4 am... Link to comment
male2008 Posted January 3, 2009 Author Share Posted January 3, 2009 The problem is we had so many problems and old problems keept coming up. Im very afraid of being alone and Im just a mess now in my head Link to comment
heaven66 Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Do you think there is hope between you 2? If you love her it's worth trying again...don't let love go. Link to comment
male2008 Posted January 3, 2009 Author Share Posted January 3, 2009 Thats the thing, we have tried again and again and again. Its so difficult and even friends and family are tiered of us being a mess. I care for her deeply, but I dont want to be trying to make something work if it dosent. If I look at statistics then its just not right, to many problems and to often it has failed. I mean we have been a total mess for a year now, all of 2008 went into his back and forward. Breaking up and getting backtogether. The worst thing is that its not that I dont care about her but a relationship shouldnt be this difficult. Im suppose to be reading for a final exam and my head is * * * * ed and Im 2 steps from crying Link to comment
heaven66 Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 Thats the thing, we have tried again and again and again. Its so difficult and even friends and family are tiered of us being a mess. I care for her deeply, but I dont want to be trying to make something work if it dosent. If I look at statistics then its just not right, to many problems and to often it has failed. I mean we have been a total mess for a year now, all of 2008 went into his back and forward. Breaking up and getting backtogether. The worst thing is that its not that I dont care about her but a relationship shouldnt be this difficult. Im suppose to be reading for a final exam and my head is * * * * ed and Im 2 steps from crying Im sorry that you are feeling this way...only you in heart will know what to do...I hope it gets better soon. Link to comment
male2008 Posted January 3, 2009 Author Share Posted January 3, 2009 Im so * * * * ed today, I can focus, I cant read for my final exam. Im just wanna grab a the chair and throw it out of the window. I keep listing to blue october - into the ocean It just says everything Im feeling. Im just so sad, angry, alone, mad, crying now and just feel like smashing everything Link to comment
Elsewhere Posted January 3, 2009 Share Posted January 3, 2009 OK I would try to resolve all the old problems once and forever - and then never go back to them! Sometimes you just agree to disagree. Compromise. Say: ok that's your opinion - and I am going to respect it, but please respect that my opinion is different. New problems: find a healthy approach - decide to be honest AND understanding. Yes - relationship shoulldn't be difficult,it sholuld be relaxing. But you have already put a lot of effort in trying to understand one another it's a lot of work to throw out the window if you give up right now. Maybe one day you'll learn to live with your differences Link to comment
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