Mutley Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 The one harrowing post about a woman getting dumped after having sex the first time with a romantic interest got me wondering if this happens to MEN that often. I know woman have problems with this sort of thing....but does it ever happen the other way around? What's your experience? Link to comment
blue69 Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 Are you asking if men have gotten dumped after having sex with a woman for the first time? The answer is of course. Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 2, 2009 Author Share Posted January 2, 2009 Are you asking if men have gotten dumped after having sex with a woman for the first time? Yea... Personally, I'm racking my brain to see if it's happened to me....I don't think so. Link to comment
nutbrownhare Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 Well - not for an awfully long time, but I did leave one guy after I'd slept with him once because his impatience, need for instant gratification and total lack of consideration for me - I felt were advance warning of what was to come if I hung around. If he had been an inexperienced teenager it would have been more understandable. But he wasn't. Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 2, 2009 Author Share Posted January 2, 2009 Well - not for an awfully long time, but I did leave one guy after I'd slept with him once because his impatience, need for instant gratification and total lack of consideration for me - I felt were advance warning of what was to come if I hung around. If he had been an inexperienced teenager it would have been more understandable. But he wasn't. There was logic behind this. I'm talking were everything seems to be going good and then BAM she disapears. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 Not sure if this is analogous but I have declined another date if we kissed for the first time and it repulsed me or turned me off in some way (but usually if there was another reason). Link to comment
COtuner Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 I've walked away from a guy I simply felt I could not sleep with, but outside of the two one night stands which aren't "romantic", I don't think I ever have done that. Could I? Yes - if I could tell the guy's sex drive or interests were not a good match. Link to comment
nutbrownhare Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 There was logic behind this. I'm talking were everything seems to be going good and then BAM she disapears. No - I really couldn't imagine doing that! Link to comment
thejigsup Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 I had a bf long ago I left after having sex with him. I was more experienced than him (he was a virgin) and he was the worst I ever had! Believe me, no amount of schooling would have helped that boy. Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 2, 2009 Author Share Posted January 2, 2009 I had a bf long ago I left after having sex with him. I was more experienced than him (he was a virgin) and he was the worst I ever had! Believe me, no amount of schooling would have helped that boy. but you were honest and upfront about it right? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 well, it has never happened to me. but, i would have had sex with the girl before we were an item so... Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 2, 2009 Author Share Posted January 2, 2009 well, it has never happened to me. but, i would have had sex with the girl before we were an item so... Pig!!! JOKE!!! Link to comment
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