mcss07 Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 Hello everyone, new to the site, and joined because I have a problem in my relationship. My girlfriend and I have been together for over two years, and we both love each other a lot. I truly feel this is the woman I want to marry, and we have been talking about out wedding for a long time. I am totally committed to her, and love her with all of my heart. However there is a few issues I have been thinking about lately. When we starting dating I was a true virgin, never even kissed anyone, and she was not. She had been with 11 people in the two and a half years before we started dating. Some were relationships, some were not. This has always hurt me a bit, but recently it has gotten a little worse. I really love her, and know that who she is now is not who she was then...but still it hurts me. I am nothing but a gentleman about all of this with her, and we have talked about it a few times. However it still hurts me, and I am wondering if anyone else has any advice on how I can help myself get over these stupid feelings about her past. Thank you
Karmageddon Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 She cannot erase her past, she was obviously looking for something more and found it with you. Why is that not good enough for you?
ghost69 Posted January 2, 2009 Posted January 2, 2009 it's her past. you can't fault anybody for that. dwell on the present and think of the future. forget someone's past.
nimisaj Posted January 4, 2009 Posted January 4, 2009 It seems like this is really bothering you... Do you two, as a couple, really think that you're ready for marriage...? It is a big commitment and you probably know that already! May I ask... how old are you guys?
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