musicguy Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 since I was in high school I've always wanted to get married and have a family. but here I am -- gonna be 30 and still living with mom (she's poor, I m poor and she has health problems) -- can't get a girlfriend at all, on or offline and has the worst luck with women ever! -- not even in the field that i went to school for -- I have an extreme bitterness towards women -- all of my friends have girlfriends or are married and have kids. --my only brother isn't involved in my life -- can't even get laid all of my hopes and dreams are gone..so why live anymore Link to comment
Imissher Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 Brother, you are only 30. You are still a young man. You will find a great girl. You are so young man, you have so much life ahead of you to live. You must relax. Get yourself out there, and meet some ladies! Link to comment
hazelnut Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 Oh don't say that! You have PLENTY to live for. I think you may be overwhelmed. Take one thing at a time. Not everything is like what the media shoves down our throats and wants us to believe! That's for sure!!! Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 I have an extreme bitterness towards women This is the thing you need to fix the most. But everything you have posted here (minus your Moms health) is very fixable. And 30 (esp. today) is very young. You have a tonne of time to get married and have a family. But if you're dead, you don't. Link to comment
dreamwarrior Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 If you have bitterness toward women you must analyze why and try to deal with it...because for sure if you are trying to find a mate and have some type of bitterness they will sense it on you and turn away. Women are very very intuitive and can pick up on things right away...first fix your life then find a nice girl. Don't be in such a rush that shows neediness and desperation and women find that a big turn off. Just some suggestions to perhaps help you out............good luck to you. Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 1, 2009 Author Share Posted January 1, 2009 cuz women are *****es and just wanna sleep around and date jerks Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted January 1, 2009 Share Posted January 1, 2009 cuz women are *****es and just wanna sleep around and date jerks Better them than the self-pitiers who hate women though. Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 1, 2009 Author Share Posted January 1, 2009 oh well, looks like I'm gonna have to slap some women then Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 2, 2009 Author Share Posted January 2, 2009 Better them than the self-pitiers who hate women though. booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Link to comment
Imissher Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 Hey Bro, I know things are tough. If you ever need to talk, send me a PM. I'd be happy to PM back and forth or share AIM,Yahoo, MSN info. Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 2, 2009 Author Share Posted January 2, 2009 Hey Bro, I know things are tough. If you ever need to talk, send me a PM. I'd be happy to PM back and forth or share AIM,Yahoo, MSN info. thanks man, glad that I have someone to talk to Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 2, 2009 Author Share Posted January 2, 2009 knife to my wrist right now I'm cutting Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 oh well, looks like I'm gonna have to slap some women then Oh yea you're going to get far in life with that type of attitude. Stop the hatred towards women and then maybe after that you will find a woman who will actually be with you. Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 2, 2009 Author Share Posted January 2, 2009 Oh yea you're going to get far in life with that type of attitude. Stop the hatred towards women and then maybe after that you will find a woman who will actually be with you. hmm, well, if women didn't screw me over and actually give me a chance, then maybe I wouldn't have this attitude...get it!! Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 hmm, well, if women didn't screw me over and actually give me a chance, then maybe I wouldn't have this attitude...get it!! I have been screwed over by men throughout my life...but I know that there are good men out there..I just haven't been lucky enough to meet one. Lots of people get screwed over by the opposite sex..but that doesn't mean that the entire population is bad...it just means that the people you have encountered are...but that represents a very small portion of the population. Link to comment
musicguy Posted January 2, 2009 Author Share Posted January 2, 2009 I was at my friends house last night for new years..my friends were kissing their girlfriends and i was kissing the beer bottle and drinking as much as i could. 5 of my cousins are married and 3 have kids right now Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 at my friends house last night for new years..my friends were kissing their girlfriends and i was kissing the beer bottle and drinking as much as i could. 5 of my cousins are married and 3 have kids right now I am much older than you and been through some really crappy, desperate times where nothing was going right and I was crapped on by many people. I toughed it out and was determined to live a good life regardless. I made it through the tough times. I may not have had success on the relationship front but I have had success in many other areas of my life..the battles were hard but my perseverance paid off. It is not likely I will ever have a partner and while that thought doesn't thrill me to pieces, I will survive and I will live a happy life. Having had to endure a lot of s**t from men, if I can't have a harmonious relationship built on love, respect, integrity and honesty then I would rather be alone. Link to comment
Regenesis Posted January 2, 2009 Share Posted January 2, 2009 If bitternes towards women means hate or something close to,then I have it too. Dude,you are just like me.When I will be 30 I will also live with my mother.just that my mother has diebetes so she might be dead at that time.But we are still a poor family,and I also hate women(for sexual reasons). Link to comment
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