Go Me

[franfran]

I just want to post this here because I've been really proud and happy for myself lately, so maybe writing on here will make it even more real.

 

I was dumped 2 1/2 months ago by a guy who I thought was the love of my life, my best friend. I was nothing but torn up about it, but I have since taken control of myself and snapped out of it. I am better than him and I don't deserve to let myself feel that way.

 

And I have a crush on someone now! And he has a crush on me! I sound like a fourth grader!

This is such a weird feeling. Being with someone else for so long made me forget this feeling. And it is amazing.

 

Should I feel bad this is a mutual friend who actually works with my ex? Nah. I don't even care. I am taking this as slow as possible, for once in my life. I know myself enough to confidently say that I am pretty well over my ex. What a feeling.

[Lady Bugg2]

Woooo hoooo...go Fran Go Fran!!!! LOL

Enjoy the rush of a new crush!!!!!

[LBP]

No need to feel bad. He dumped you, all bets are off. He doesn't have the right to be upset at you or his friend... though he may have that reaction, anyway. Has your crushed someone weighed that possibility, by the by?

[franfran]

Has your crushed someone weighed that possibility, by the by?

 

He probably has, but I don't think he cares because my ex has been a crappy friend lately. Either way, I don't think I'm going to act on this mutual attraction because it's not the right time in my life for a relationship...I haven't been single for 4 1/2 years, so I think it's time to take a break from boyfriends for awhile. I think I lost myself somewhere among the D-bags

[definitely_maybe]

go franfran