C6Z06 Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 Well I stooped to the lowest level with my EX... There is absolutely not a thing in this world that'll make me take her back.... I found out since we broke up (dec 1) she's slept with 2 guys... The first guy was a friend of mine, after he found out we broke up, he cheats on his current gf and slept with my ex. so I go out and I get revenge by sleeping with his girlfriend... Karma's a B ain't it........... The other guy, I don't know him, but he can have her, because I'm DONE with her. I've upgraded, he can have my sloppy seconds.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
savignon Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 It sounds like you and your group of 'friends' use sex as a tool for anger, revenge, jealousy and spite... not healthy! I hope the new year brings some happier things your way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SighSob Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 actually the real Bs seem to be your girlfriends...karma is a saint compared to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riley123 Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 But what has it done for you? Did it bring you peace or closure? It doesn't sound like it. Stop doing things in order to get your revenge or get even. Remember, the best 'revenge' on an ex is living a life you are happy with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C6Z06 Posted December 29, 2008 Author Share Posted December 29, 2008 But what has it done for you? Did it bring you peace or closure? It doesn't sound like it. Stop doing things in order to get your revenge or get even. Remember, the best 'revenge' on an ex is living a life you are happy with. It's brought me closure...I'm happier than ever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jettison Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 Well I stooped to the lowest level with my EX... There is absolutely not a thing in this world that'll make me take her back.... I found out since we broke up (dec 1) she's slept with 2 guys... The first guy was a friend of mine, after he found out we broke up, he cheats on his current gf and slept with my ex. so I go out and I get revenge by sleeping with his girlfriend... Karma's a B ain't it........... The other guy, I don't know him, but he can have her, because I'm DONE with her. I've upgraded, he can have my sloppy seconds.... You've "upgraded"? "Sloppy seconds"? And how long before your new woman, whoever that is, gets referred to as sloppy seconds, and you have to "upgrade" once more? Women aren't home appliances. You don't upgrade. Someone is either a match for you or she isn't. And as it sounds like you're pretty young, and are using sex and relationships as a commodity, maybe you're ending up with these women for a reason. Like tends to attract like. It sounds like your ex felt like she "upgraded", and now she's moved on. So if you do the exact same thing, then how are you any better? I don't mean to be harsh about this, but it's going to help your future relationships quite a bit if you no longer have to rely on this way of thinking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thejigsup Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 Why are you done with her? It seems you two have a lot in common. You both sleep around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C6Z06 Posted December 29, 2008 Author Share Posted December 29, 2008 You've "upgraded"? "Sloppy seconds"? And how long before your new woman, whoever that is, gets referred to as sloppy seconds, and you have to "upgrade" once more? Women aren't home appliances. You don't upgrade. Someone is either a match for you or she isn't. And as it sounds like you're pretty young, and are using sex and relationships as a commodity, maybe you're ending up with these women for a reason. Like tends to attract like. It sounds like your ex felt like she "upgraded", and now she's moved on. So if you do the exact same thing, then how are you any better? I don't mean to be harsh about this, but it's going to help your future relationships quite a bit if you no longer have to rely on this way of thinking. I only did what I had to do to get back at her and my supposedly friend. I wasn't going to let him go around bragging right in front of me about how he slept with my EX. Now he can't say anything because I've returned the favor.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jettison Posted December 29, 2008 Share Posted December 29, 2008 I only did what I had to do to get back at her and my supposedly friend. I wasn't going to let him go around bragging right in front of me about how he slept with my EX. Now he can't say anything because I've returned the favor.... What they can both say though is that you're no better then them. Worse still, now you can't even tell yourself that you're better then them, nor above the fray. Now, you're relegated to "the guy who reacts" rather then being someone who actually acts, positively, on his wants and dreams. Act and don't react. It's an important distinction that's always going to serve you well. If you want a global example of just how well reacting works, look no further then the Israeli/Palestinian conflict. That aren't any winners when you're trying to 1up someone you perceive as having hurt you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
C6Z06 Posted January 5, 2009 Author Share Posted January 5, 2009 I'm soo over my EX, lol, I don't want to have anything to do with her and not one thought of her has ran through my head since 1/1/09.... The last contact I made with her was New Years morning, I sent her a text saying "Happy New Years", and she sent me a text back saying, "Don't ever text my phone again, lose my number b***h". After that I washed my hands because I was through with her. Someone else can have my old problems........ I'm off to a fresh start, 5 days with NC with the EX...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magnex Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 so you had sloppy seconds with your mates bird then? ](*,) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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