Saw her picture, feeling anxious

[whattheeff]

We broke up a month ago. We have met twice for coffee and now I am in strict NC. I have not looked at one picture since the breakup... and I just inadvertently ran into her picture on a mutual friends facebook page. I've been doing a lot better, but damn... just seeing her picture for a split second sent that deep inner pain right back through me... and now I cant get thoughts about her and us out of my mind. I would have thought I'd be able to handle this a little better...

[missmeyer17]

I dont know the whole story but maybe if she would want to talk you could tell her about your feelings and see if she has any of the same ones?

 

Best of Luck

[whattheeff]

I dont know the whole story but maybe if she would want to talk you could tell her about your feelings and see if she has any of the same ones?

 

Best of Luck

 

Already been through that stage, now Im just trying to let the past be the past and heal.

[SighSob]

Don't use facebook dude, it's just too dangerous...I guess if I saw a picture of my ex hanging happily with other guys I'd feel my heart shred into a thousand tiny pieces...

[missmeyer17]

yeah sometimes it can take along time.. but ull find that someone believe me

loseing someone you love is very very hard..

[whattheeff]

Don't use facebook dude, it's just too dangerous...I guess if I saw a picture of my ex hanging happily with other guys I'd feel my heart shred into a thousand tiny pieces...

 

I "de-friended" her and most of our mutual ties, so its been fine for about a month. I guess it was bound to happen some how.

[SighSob]

I didn't defriend anyone (except for her and the guy she has a crush on lol). I just DON'T log into facebook anymore lol.

[Laura11111]

It's only been a month so you're not exptected to be healed by now. Give it more time and stick to the NC. Seeing her will just prolong your suffering.

[julioiglesia]

you can go to facebook and minimize the level of updates that you get from your mutual friends. or you don't have to use facebook altogether, you can just check your email and still gets messages minus the pictures.