Why can't we fix this?

[miabeloved]

I don't know where to start, I don't even know if its worth it anymore. We've been together 10 years, we're married and we have two children but it's like we're strangers. I can't remember the last time we were truly happy with one another-right now we're in the same house and it's like we're miles apart-we're not speaking to each other, we aren't looking at each other...it hurts but at the same time its been going on so long I'm becoming numb to it-he's been numb to it forever. I don't know how much longer we can go on like this. Everything cannot be my fault-he can't really be that blind to what he's doing to make things harder...arrggghh, it's too frustrating to write about this anymore...blahhhh

[question2008]

have you considered marriage therapy? It sounds like communication has seriously broken down, and you may need some help to get it started again. It's not easy, and may need some coaxing.

[charity]

can you be more specific? do you still love him? how long have things been this way?

[ResonanceTheory]

You need to start by identifying the problem. Once you identify the problem, you can assess whether or not it is fixable or even worth fixing to both of you. A counselor can help you find the problem if you're both willing to be open and honest and constructive.