Phone Sex - Parents listening in. Is this sick of what?

[itsthethoughtthatcounts]

I am thinking back to a time when i was having phone sex with my then bf. My parents always liked listening into my phone conversations with a short wave radio.

I remember so clearly a time i was having phone sex with my then bf in my room (where they couldnt hear me) and i heard my voice coming back to me. They were out in the lounge room both huddled over the radio listening to what i was saying and doing.

 

Is this normal? I dont think it is. Wouldnt any 'normal' parent who picked up on this conversation change the station not keep listening in?

[LW4E]

I think that's very weird... and its not like you're in a position to say anything to them about it anyway... I could only imagine how awkward that conversation would be :s.

[Taomagicdragon]

Hopefully they bring it up at inopportune moments to embarrass you, otherwise that'd be sketchy.

[waveseer]

Is there any possibility that they didn't identify your voice and thought they were listening to a stranger?

[Kalika]

Uhhm... errr... eek ..

[Mythical_Suicide]

Um yea.. that is weird.. to say the least.

[yeawutever]

Yea that's soo pervertish.........

[waveseer]

If you are underage maybe they were trying to figure out if you were actually sexually active or pretending just for fun?

[yeawutever]

If you are underage maybe they were trying to figure out if you were actually sexually active or pretending just for fun?

 

My parents would never listen to my conversations when I was a minor. It's not really the norm parents do.

[Car Chick]

Holy crap! This reminds me of one of those werid cult things where parents have sex with their kids. I'd get away from them asap. How old are you? Could you move out?

[Car Chick]

Is there any possibility that they didn't identify your voice and thought they were listening to a stranger?

 

 

Didn't recognize their own child's voice? Well at least distant and neglective is better than getting turned on by their kid, but I highly doubt it.

[waveseer]

I am not invested in any of the possible explanations I am throwing out there, I'm just trying to understand the situation better. I try to reserve judgment until all of the facts are in.

[Mythical_Suicide]

Didn't recognize their own child's voice? Well at least distant and neglective is better than getting turned on by their kid, but I highly doubt it.

 

 

Usually when people have phone sex they aren't talking in their "normal" voices. LOL

[Taomagicdragon]

Didn't recognize their own child's voice? Well at least distant and neglective is better than getting turned on by their kid, but I highly doubt it.

You're assuming they were aroused, how interesting. It's possible but the probable scenario was looking to embarrass or investigate. Still odd, but not incestuous.

[kaoticbaby]

You're assuming they were aroused, how interesting. It's possible but the probable scenario was looking to embarrass or investigate. Still odd, but not incestuous.

i agree. my first thought was that they were spying on their daughter, listening to what she's getting up to. not that they were aroused by it.

 

but still, in that case (if i were a parent) i think i would listen to about 20 seconds of it before either a) turning it off and pretending i didn't hear anything or b) storming down her door.

[TheSmilingTurnip]

Yeah, it's one of those weird situations, that's obvious. But creepy weird? I don't know...are your parents creepy? Do you still live with them?

[Cognitive_Canine]

Wow, that would make me furious.

 

I used to HAAAAAAAAAAAATE when my mother read my diaries. Absolutely disrespectful and bound to ruin future relationships with your parents.

[Taomagicdragon]

Reading a diary and hearing your daughter have phone sex are a bit different, maybe not where privacy is concerned but, well, when you live with your parents under their roof you don't always have the luxury of privacy.

 

If I heard it I would have taken away phone privileges for a month and ground them for a week for every word I heard.

[Santerme]

I do find what they did rather more than just a little disturbing.

[Taomagicdragon]

Well, what we don't know is how long they listened, and whether or not she was just paranoid and thought she heard them. It could have been towards the end, towards the beginning ,we're not given enough information to be creeped out. It is odd they did nothing (apparently) but I don't see it half as creepy as it sounds because there's not enough information given to prove the feeling displayed.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Reading a diary and hearing your daughter have phone sex are a bit different, maybe not where privacy is concerned but, well, when you live with your parents under their roof you don't always have the luxury of privacy.

 

If I heard it I would have taken away phone privileges for a month and ground them for a week for every word I heard.

 

Yes, ground them for being human and for having sexual feelings. That's reasonable.

[Taomagicdragon]

My house, my rules, my phone-line

 

Edit: They can have these feelings and if they pay for their own phone then sure. See? I'm reasonable.

[Cognitive_Canine]

My house, my rules, my phone-line

 

Good way to destroy a relationship with your children.

 

My mother presses too hard on me. So, I doubt I will be living anywhere close by due to that.

 

Not to mention, you could deeply scar your children. Punishing them for having sexual feelings is a great way for them to link sex to being a horrible act. That could haunt them for the rest of their lives. Instead, it's better to teach them about safe sex, and to instill morals in them that allows them to make the right choices for them.

 

I know a lot of people who have emotional problems due to parents, myself included, and really it just hurts the parents in the end.

[laisla]

did they listen in on you so that they could tell you not to do it? or did they just listen to it like porn. that is naaaaaaaaaaaaaaasty.

[Taomagicdragon]

I would explain fully well that it's not the sexual feelings but the act of using my phone for it, same with internet.

 

They can get their own phone for smut-talk.