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Phone Sex - Parents listening in. Is this sick of what?


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I am thinking back to a time when i was having phone sex with my then bf. My parents always liked listening into my phone conversations with a short wave radio.

I remember so clearly a time i was having phone sex with my then bf in my room (where they couldnt hear me) and i heard my voice coming back to me. They were out in the lounge room both huddled over the radio listening to what i was saying and doing.

 

Is this normal? I dont think it is. Wouldnt any 'normal' parent who picked up on this conversation change the station not keep listening in?

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Didn't recognize their own child's voice? Well at least distant and neglective is better than getting turned on by their kid, but I highly doubt it.

You're assuming they were aroused, how interesting. It's possible but the probable scenario was looking to embarrass or investigate. Still odd, but not incestuous.

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You're assuming they were aroused, how interesting. It's possible but the probable scenario was looking to embarrass or investigate. Still odd, but not incestuous.

i agree. my first thought was that they were spying on their daughter, listening to what she's getting up to. not that they were aroused by it.

 

but still, in that case (if i were a parent) i think i would listen to about 20 seconds of it before either a) turning it off and pretending i didn't hear anything or b) storming down her door.

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Reading a diary and hearing your daughter have phone sex are a bit different, maybe not where privacy is concerned but, well, when you live with your parents under their roof you don't always have the luxury of privacy.

 

If I heard it I would have taken away phone privileges for a month and ground them for a week for every word I heard.

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Well, what we don't know is how long they listened, and whether or not she was just paranoid and thought she heard them. It could have been towards the end, towards the beginning ,we're not given enough information to be creeped out. It is odd they did nothing (apparently) but I don't see it half as creepy as it sounds because there's not enough information given to prove the feeling displayed.

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Reading a diary and hearing your daughter have phone sex are a bit different, maybe not where privacy is concerned but, well, when you live with your parents under their roof you don't always have the luxury of privacy.

 

If I heard it I would have taken away phone privileges for a month and ground them for a week for every word I heard.

 

Yes, ground them for being human and for having sexual feelings. That's reasonable.

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My house, my rules, my phone-line

 

Good way to destroy a relationship with your children.

 

My mother presses too hard on me. So, I doubt I will be living anywhere close by due to that.

 

Not to mention, you could deeply scar your children. Punishing them for having sexual feelings is a great way for them to link sex to being a horrible act. That could haunt them for the rest of their lives. Instead, it's better to teach them about safe sex, and to instill morals in them that allows them to make the right choices for them.

 

I know a lot of people who have emotional problems due to parents, myself included, and really it just hurts the parents in the end.

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