That First Step?

[FedUp7]

Hi.

What's that first step to mending the broken heart and moving on with your life? I've been married for a rocky 7 years, I have 3 kids and even one on the way. I just couldn't take it anymore.

 

Thanks.

FedUp7

[Crazyaboutdogs]

Did you split from your partner? Are you getting divorced?

[FedUp7]

We are in the same house and are in the process of divorce. I'm just trying to put the money together to be able to leave with my children. I'm having difficulty focusing because we are still in the same house. What's the first step to get myself strong again?

[John Bendix]

Realizing the reason that you think you are not strong.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

Do you have friends and family you can lean on for emotional support? Was there abuse or infidelity involved? Do you have a job? How soon do you think you can move out? To make the decision to leave already shows that you are strong...just keep focusing on your future and what you need to do...that is how you stay strong. Make sure that you will be getting child support.

[keefy1972]

What happened in the relationship? Why do you want to leave? Is he abusive? Are you in any danger? Please elaborate so we could better help you. Don't worry about how long it is going to be, we will read your story.