Should this bother me ?

[a_lifters_life]

I find late at night, right about now I get sort of angry about little things at my g/f or atleast it has been like that in the past.

 

Anyways - the thing that is bothering me tonight is, well today was christmas so I didnt text my girl as much and left her alone even though she texted me instead. I called her once early in the morning to wish her a merry christmas...then shes texting me all day. At like 720 730 pm she's like my phone is gonna die Im gonna go let it charge "i'll text you in a lil" were here exact words.

 

So... I was like thinking 'text you in a lil' would mean maybe like an hour or two. It's now 1030 and I havent heard anything so I texted her asking what's up how's her night and all ? Nothing.

 

So, I waited about a half hour then called and said good night, love you etc, etc. Still nothing.

 

She's usually not irresponsible about this normally. I know it's christmas, but still how long does it take someone to text saying "hey its going well or w/e" 10 seconds max ?

 

Sometimes I just feel like I want this so much more than her and it really aggrvates me. It hasnt happened in the rel. for awhile, since like the 2 month mark (almost 8 months now).

 

What to do ? She's coming tomorrow to meet alot of my extended family tomorrow since they will be in town...

[waveseer]

She texted you all day and you didn't respond? How does that translate into you wanting the relationship much more than she does?

[a_lifters_life]

She texted you all day and you didn't respond? How does that translate into you wanting the relationship much more than she does?

 

I did respond, just a little bit delayed because of company. And so was hers ...

[waveseer]

Ok, sorry, I misunderstood. Could there be an acceptable explanation? Such as she left her phone on to charge and went visiting?

[High5girl]

Well, it's Christmas. Maybe she is busy or fell asleep?

Is she with family this year?

Maybe someone dropped by?

 

Either way, she txt'ed you all day. You will hear from her sooner or later at some point.

 

Why be upset about a delayed reply? You said your reply was delayed.

This is petty, don't let it get to you. There's other things in this world to be upset about.

[a_lifters_life]

Well, it's Christmas. Maybe she is busy or fell asleep?

Is she with family this year?

Maybe someone dropped by?

 

Either way, she txt'ed you all day. You will hear from her sooner or later at some point.

 

Why be upset about a delayed reply? You said your reply was delayed.

This is petty, don't let it get to you. There's other things in this world to be upset about.

 

Well, it's the fact about commitment, not the fact that everyone is busy. She told me "text you in a lil" which means roughly 30min to 1 hr with her.... if she was gonna be longer, just tell me the whole goodnight i love you crap earlier.... she has people over, guess what ? SO DO I. And I see my family 1x per year, her family lives in the next town over and see's them every weekend . Dont give me this bs "oh, Im busy".

 

I see my family 1x per year, but for a couple texts here and there is not a big deal. Im saying commitment to your word, if your not gonna be committed to that -tell me "oh, alot of people came over I'm going to say good night now" or something around there. Ya know ?

[kaoticbaby]

i think you are majorly overreacting. you were texting all day, and because she didn't reply to one for a few hours on christmas, you're freaking out?

 

dude if my boyfriend texted me all day today i would go nuts. why do you need to be in constant touch with each other?

 

i'm sure she'll get back to you eventually with a reasonable explanation.

sorry, there is no way i can agree with you here.

[csrc85]

chill out man.

[loveistough]

I agree with the previous 2 posters that you are overreacting. Sometimes I leave my phone in another room when it's charging and don't think about it for a while. It can get quite busy with it being Christmas and her phone may not have been on her mind. Don't freak out of over that.

[_Asti_]

No, you're overreacting, like always.

It's Christmas. Some people don't want to be glued to their cell phones. She's with family, relax and chill man.

[ghost69]

ohhhhh myyyyyy gawwwww. chill out man. didn't text you back within an hour or whatever. geez. seriously? little bit clingy wouldn't you say?

[ImThatGirl]

I find late at night, right about now I get sort of angry about little things at my g/f or atleast it has been like that in the past.

 

Anyways - the thing that is bothering me tonight is,

 

I'd suggest that you go to bed earlier honestly. You've determined that usually - every night something bothers you. You need to find something to do with your time instead of sitting there wondering what you should be mad at your girlfriend about today.

 

She's usually not irresponsible about this normally. I know it's christmas, but still how long does it take someone to text saying "hey its going well or w/e" 10 seconds max ?

 

Sometimes I just feel like I want this so much more than her and it really aggrvates me. It hasnt happened in the rel. for awhile, since like the 2 month mark (almost 8 months now).

 

What to do ? She's coming tomorrow to meet alot of my extended family tomorrow since they will be in town...

 

 

Really... to put it bluntly. Every single thread you post around here reaks of controlling abuse to me. I honestly worry about this girl should she ever move in with you.