kiwi24 Posted December 25, 2008 Share Posted December 25, 2008 Guys I have to go to my friends engagement party tonight and my ex (the dumper) will be there. What should I do? HOw should I act?? We havent met or talked since the break and no attempt at communication either way even though I keep wanting to pick up the phone and call.... Need advice....Thanks!!! Link to comment
NewPhillyGuy Posted December 25, 2008 Share Posted December 25, 2008 Guys I have to go to my friends engagement party tonight and my ex (the dumper) will be there. What should I do? HOw should I act?? We havent met or talked since the break and no attempt at communication either way even though I keep wanting to pick up the phone and call.... Need advice....Thanks!!! Hmm...tough one. I would say do not approach and just hang with your friends. If your ex approaches, say a polite hello and that's it. Link to comment
hmdreamer7 Posted December 25, 2008 Share Posted December 25, 2008 If you two happen to run into each other, keep any conversing to a minimum, and just be friendly/cordial. As the saying goes, "kill with kindness." Link to comment
deff808 Posted December 25, 2008 Share Posted December 25, 2008 Example of kill with kindness? I'm sort of in the same situation.... Link to comment
franfran Posted December 25, 2008 Share Posted December 25, 2008 Hey kiwi.... read this: It is a thread I started a few days ago...I was in sort of a similar situation...it might help! Walk in there with your head held high, with a huge smile on your face. Wear a hot dress and do up your lips. Say "hi" briefly (if you have to) and move on, don't look back. Be happy and be yourself. This the best thing you can do! Show him that you are OKAY! I promise you he will be surprised, and not only that, but you will feel amazing about yourself afterward. I have to agree with the killing with kindness concept. In this situation, if you have to say hi to him, or if he initiates conversation, be sweeter than candy. If he asks you how you are, don't say you're alright or you're okay or you're fine. You are FANTASTIC. You are on top of the world. Things are great. Don't let him think you are still pining over him, still crying over him, who cares if you are, he doesn't need to know that. Be nice, laugh a lot and show him that you are a strong woman....I bet he won't expect it. Link to comment
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