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Unless you are willing to lose her brother as a friend, you should refrain from persuing a relationship with his sister. These never end well. Even if he was accepting of you dating his sister, you have to consider the repercussions if/when you break up. Blood is thicker than water. You stand to lose a friend either way. Not worth it.

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I don't see anything wrong with dating a friends sibling, however you do know that you are at risk for losing a very good friend. Especially if you end up dating her and have problems with the relationship. Do you really want to take that chance?

 

i guess you're right. i'd don't want to risk losing a friend.

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i like a girl but her brother is my best friend. what should i do?

 

Not to diss.

 

I find that a lot of guys that don't date around much take kindness from girls the wrong way.

 

Example, a friend might fall for a friend's girlfriend because she is nice to him or invites him out just because she wants to fit in with her boyfriend's groups of friends. Some guys just don't see this and think there is more to it.

 

Have you ever thought that maybe she is just being friendly with you because she is comfortable around you because you are her brother's friend.

 

Either way I wouldn't go after my friend's sisters. It's different if she was already your girl friend then u make friends with her siblings. But don't do it the other way around.

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Unless you are willing to lose her brother as a friend, you should refrain from persuing a relationship with his sister. These never end well. Even if he was accepting of you dating his sister, you have to consider the repercussions if/when you break up. Blood is thicker than water. You stand to lose a friend either way. Not worth it.

 

UNSPOKEN RULE: You do not date your best friends or friends ex's or family.

 

where do you guys get this?

 

 

look, there is a chance of losing a friend, but just asking him about his sister and telling him you have interest is little to no harm.

 

if you do end up dating her, a few different things can happen:

 

-you work out and it ends up great

-you don't work out and the breakup makes your buddy mad and you never work it out

-you don't work out and the breakup makes your buddy mad and you can work it out

-you break up and you and your buddy are still cool

 

i put them in order of most likely.

 

but this whole guaranteed gonna lose a friend is nonsense.

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