Should I call? would she call? what do I do now!

[Massari]

well it has been a while since i was on a date. Any how so I was Dj ing at my sister's birthday, one of my very best performances so far, and whet it is my night the confidence goes high, I have a health condition recently so i can't drink, now I thought it was gonna suck for me not being able to drink at a party and it wasn't I was having a blast. There was a girl, very attractive and cute who was very drunk! she kept coming to my station asking me to play this song and that song then we talked she asked my name. Later down the night I asked for her number. First she said add me on facebook but i said no i don't use it much. She siad ok I will give it to you but you have to memorize it! i did! and then i saved in my phone. I started texting her 2 days after and wanted to meet up with her today but last night she siad why not meet up right now and go for tea.

 

So i picked her up we laugh alot on the phone and talked in my car,there was really no awkward silent moment there which was nice. When we said goodnight she didn't say anything about lets meet up again or anything like that. Thats my only concern. now the question is how much should this be a concern anyway?

[JeckyllNHyde]

how about not worrying.

maybe she'll text you on her own.

play it cool.

call her or text the next day or in 2 days just to say hi.

 

 

or if you want, text her something like "hey, thank u for a nice night. had fun, and i hope you did too.

hopefully she'll either ask you to hang out or you guys can SLOWLY get to know each other and the next time you wont even need to ASK if she wants to hang out with u. it'sll just feel natural.

[android]

how about not worrying.

maybe she'll text you on her own.

play it cool.

call her or text the next day or in 2 days just to say hi.

 

 

or if you want, text her something like "hey, thank u for a nice night. had fun, and i hope you did too.

hopefully she'll either ask you to hang out or you guys can SLOWLY get to know each other and the next time you wont even need to ASK if she wants to hang out with u. it'sll just feel natural.

 

I agree with this. Yet make sure you dont sound eager about things with her, even if you are. Its lifts the red flag. Sometimes happens with me... ](*,)

 

Good luck!

[Massari]

I agree with this. Yet make sure you dont sound eager about things with her, even if you are. Its lifts the red flag. Sometimes happens with me... ](*,)

 

Good luck!

 

 

You see the last two days I was the one who initiated contact with her so I want her to initiate something anything .. message on facebook anything so it shows that she is thinking about me or something. That's why I am kinda concerned ! I really like her and trying to not sound eager is kinda hard!

[android]

how about not worrying.

maybe she'll text you on her own.

play it cool.

call her or text the next day or in 2 days just to say hi.

 

 

or if you want, text her something like "hey, thank u for a nice night. had fun, and i hope you did too.

hopefully she'll either ask you to hang out or you guys can SLOWLY get to know each other and the next time you wont even need to ASK if she wants to hang out with u. it'sll just feel natural.

 

I agree with this. Yet make sure you dont sound eager about things with her, even if you are. Its lifts the red flag. Sometimes happens with me...

 

Good luck!

[android]

i guess u should wait. You know maybe she's thinking. There's this girl i am with, even though we've been friends for long time, i still gotta wait a whole day to get an sms reply. Be patient. One wrong move and you might be blowing this new relation. You dont know how she's gonna take it. If its past 2 days and you have been contacting, let it go for sometime... At least until christmas.. You could see who wishes first. And if she doesnt wish, you could do that (dont complain, maybe complain in a joking way) and then tell her what she's gonna be doing on christmas. Ask her if you could meet.... thats the best way, i think... dont blow things up with impatience.

[Massari]

i guess u should wait. You know maybe she's thinking. There's this girl i am with, even though we've been friends for long time, i still gotta wait a whole day to get an sms reply. Be patient. One wrong move and you might be blowing this new relation. You dont know how she's gonna take it. If its past 2 days and you have been contacting, let it go for sometime... At least until christmas.. You could see who wishes first. And if she doesnt wish, you could do that (dont complain, maybe complain in a joking way) and then tell her what she's gonna be doing on christmas. Ask her if you could meet.... thats the best way, i think... dont blow things up with impatience.

Knowing you're from Canada also! I will say this she is leaving for blue mountain resort tomorrow for about 3 days she told she doesn't really feel like it but she has to go. Now one thing that is in my mind is that I have been having a health issue lately that I have to eat healthy no alcohol. and she asked me about my exams toward the end of the night and I did mention this at the end. I am thinking could this be a turn off:S or again I am over analyzing it!

[android]

ok.... so dont think much more. If she's leaving tomorrow,text her or call her and ask her if she could spare sometime with you for coffee or something. Tell her its very important and that you have to tell her something... Get a good present for her, something small and sweet.make sure u dont indicate or make it obvious what you feel for her... make it something like "its been nice knowing you. Merry christmas"....

 

dont tell her i told u.... ha ha lolz

[android]

and yeah, be very cool when you meet her.. And dont contact her for the three days that she is going to be away.... swallow your phone if you have to.. The gift and the little writtten note will allow her something to remember and think about you over christmas, coming back, she will contact you..

[Massari]

ok.... so dont think much more. If she's leaving tomorrow,text her or call her and ask her if she could spare sometime with you for coffee or something. Tell her its very important and that you have to tell her something... Get a good present for her, something small and sweet.make sure u dont indicate or make it obvious what you feel for her... make it something like "its been nice knowing you. Merry christmas"....

 

dont tell her i told u.... ha ha lolz

 

 

Oh really? so before she leaves? I don't even know what time she will be leaving for BM. I know its tomorrow. I have an idea of what to get her. it was a cute stuffed sheep!

[Massari]

Last night before she leave she said she was gonna clean her room .. so I just texted her and asked her if she cleaned her room yet in a joking way. and so I can ask her when she will be leaving tomorrow, . we'll see if she will answer.

[android]

dont send messages out of position... maybe she mite not like... so is she done?

ur gift sounds good... go ahead

[LE DHUY NHUT]

Oh really? so before she leaves? I don't even know what time she will be leaving for BM. I know its tomorrow. I have an idea of what to get her. it was a cute stuffed sheep!

 

Haven't you learned anything by being on this site for so long?No gifts so early on.She's not your girl.Enjoy your Christmas but wait until she contacts you.You are already being impatient and over analyzing.

[ghost69]

don't give her a gift and don't tell her you have to tell her something before she leaves. keep it fun and flirty and just say you would like to see her before she leaves.

 

also, you mentioned the health condition thing here twice in two of your posts. completely irrelevant in any of this. don't use it as a crutch.

[android]

hey pal. whats going on?

[Massari]

don't give her a gift and don't tell her you have to tell her something before she leaves. keep it fun and flirty and just say you would like to see her before she leaves.

 

also, you mentioned the health condition thing here twice in two of your posts. completely irrelevant in any of this. don't use it as a crutch.

 

I read this in the morning!!! but feels to good know that this health thing won't effect my dating life. I was kinda unhappy about this...

 

hey pal. whats going on?

 

 

 

hello! well I did sent the messages last night. I am also a Dj so when i was in the car she said can you burn me a CD. I said yeah you know what why don't you take this one that is my car. At the end of the night she forgot. So last nighti messaged her saying this

I have something to give you and no it is not the Black Berry Storm! then she said

"it is not the black berry storm i don't want it! joking. is it the cd?"

 

I replied well the cd is a part of it yeah!

[Massari]

here is a little background information on her. friend of mine know knows her told me she was engaged before and her fiance cheats on her with her best friend or something like that so she gets devestated . From my understanding this happened at the beginning of 2008 in Jan or so.

[LE DHUY NHUT]

here is a little background information on her. friend of mine know knows her told me she was engaged before and her fiance cheats on her with her best friend or something like that so she gets devestated . From my understanding this happened at the beginning of 2008 in Jan or so.

 

Doesn't matter too much if you can attract her.Just sit tight.I am sensing your eagerness.

[ghost69]

here is a little background information on her. friend of mine know knows her told me she was engaged before and her fiance cheats on her with her best friend or something like that so she gets devestated . From my understanding this happened at the beginning of 2008 in Jan or so.

 

this has nothing to do with you and her.

[Massari]

this has nothing to do with you and her.

 

do you think she might have trust issues because of this?

[ghost69]

do you think she might have trust issues because of this?

 

it's possible. just keep an eye out and don't just jump in and think you can rescue her or be this amazing guy. people like this need time and space to get their head straight. sometimes they never do. just be weary.

[Massari]

Update:

 

I meet up with her with the card the stuffed sheep and the cd. She came down. sat in my car. drove around for a bit. had causal talk then drove her back since she had to go and start packing. I gave her the gift back she read the card and liked it alot then she said I will listen to this CD all the way to the resort. and then she saw the animal and really liked it since she collects these things apparently. She gave me a hug and kissed me on the cheek and said thank you so much for the gift very sweet of you. Marry christmass and that I will call you when i came back. This time the talk was very comfortable in the car since i saw her before and so it was easy for both of us to talk. I think things are ok now. and no I will not text her or anything while she is away till she comes back..

[android]

well massari. i guess u gotta treat me!!! lol... I gave you the idea.. lol.. well keep it lik this and as you said, be true to ur word and dont contact... She'll be the first one to contact after she comes back.... good luck champ..

[android]

Hey and some personal advice... Dont ever mention about her fiance or anything whatever happens... YOU JUST DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT HER PAST!!! I meant she might want to leave it out and so dont ever make the mention of it even by mistake. There will be a time until she mentions... till then keep it silent. it could also be a set back in the relation if you mention it, because she might thing you tried collecting info on her past without her knowing and stuff.. keep your eyes open and mind clear...

[Massari]

well massari. i guess u gotta treat me!!! lol... I gave you the idea.. lol.. well keep it lik this and as you said, be true to ur word and dont contact... She'll be the first one to contact after she comes back.... good luck champ..

 

Hahah I know~ I owe you one. If you're in Toronto I can actually treat you! hahah Merry Christmass mate.