Her family sucks!

[Eveylyn]

Ok, So we just bought a house in febuary. I'm very proud of my house. its a three bedroom two bath. A & I are rarely there though cause we work alot. Well, her aunt lost her house cause she couldn't pay the rent. She literally had nowhere to go. So for some reason, because we had two extra bedrooms we let her aunt, aunts boyfriend, and their two kids move in. I specifically told her though that our lot payment is four hundred dollars. She would have to pay for that. Its been two months and she has only given us one hundred.

 

Now, several times she has come up to us and said, i'll give you money yada yada yada.....never saw a dime. Then she started hiding in her room a lot. Kids were staying over at friends so we rarely saw them. i thought she might be avoiding us.....

 

Then i got laid off. We lost our cable....Didn't get my unemployment for some reason....(fighting that one) so now its just A working....I wanted to ask her Aunt for the money but A wont let me! she states "thats her aunt, and were helping them out". I reminded her, if we dont pay our mortgage who's gonna help us out? But it just gets into a bigger and bigger argument....i'm afraid this could possibly be the one thing that breaks us....I love her dearly. But Her family wont even buy groceries. I walked into their room the other day cause they barrowed a movie....THEY HAD BOUGHT GROCERIES AND HID THEM IN THEIR ROOM! A didn't seem to care....said maybe they needed them! I bought crap for a month for the whole household and it got all eaten! I've made dinner and they ate it! But they bought candy and chips and cookies and hid it in their room?

 

Is this the end for A & I?

[Mavh25]

No, it should'nt be, this is'nt really A's fault, she's just trying to do good.. You seriously need to sit down and talk about it though, her aunt is being blatantly disrespectful, I would'nt be able to keep my mouth shut that would piss me off royally.

 

Have a talk.

[agent1607307371]

No, it should'nt be, this is'nt really A's fault, she's just trying to do good.. You seriously need to sit down and talk about it though, her aunt is being blatantly disrespectful, I would'nt be able to keep my mouth shut that would piss me off royally.

 

Have a talk.

 

Definitely.

 

I wouldn't stand to be basically mocked in my own home by people I went out of my way to help.

[redhearts]

They shouldn't be living there, especially if they aren't helping out. If you need help with the mortgage then you are better off getting two PAYING roommates.

[metrogirl]

Well, her aunt lost her house cause she couldn't pay the rent.

 

Bingo! She couldn't pay the rent. If she couldn't pay the rent to keep her place, surely she can't pay the rent anywhere else either. That was your big red flag right there.