Lonely holidays

[CrashTestDummy]

I feel particularly lonely this holiday... I feel so loveless...

 

I usually feel really happy around Christmas, it's one of my favorite holidays, but this year there's something different about it... I just feel lonely... There's always something to look forward to, but not this year... nothing ever happens to me

 

Haven't been in a relationship for about 3 years now... maybe that's it... but its so hard to find the right person... nothing ever happens to me...

[heatspreader]

I know how you feel. I have my family and all, but I want to be with someone special. Pretty much every holiday I feel kind of crappy because all I really want is love and someone to talk to.

[coolgirl]

Well look at it this way maybe in 09 things would start to look better. Have yall had that in mind?

[stereoeclectic]

i'm on my second Christmas alone. i know how you feel. i miss the family stuff that we always did. i suppose it will get easier as years go by. i'm not looking to date anyone, so i'll make my own traditions.

[Raistlin]

I feel like the first 2 posters this holiday,but I am actively working on securing a new job after losing my last, and finding that special someone.

 

I'm determined to make 2009 the year that 2008 was supposed to be.

 

EDIT: 2008 was supposed to be the year that my ex and I got engaged, and the year that I was able to start a life truly on my own with my ex - no roommates. I was also looking for a better job/career, and to start creating a home for my future family.

 

NONE of it happened, and it's due to a lot of things just plain going wrong this year. I've spent enough time moping though, and I want to finally have some good find me - so I'm going to go out there and create the opportunities for the "good" i'm looking for to present itself.

[renaissancewoman101]

I always feel lonely and or stressed out around the holidays, mainly there is always some type of controversy going on with my parents. I also miss having a SO in my life, someone to share the holidays with. When my and I were still together, we always had a good time around the holidays. I would spend Thanksgiving with them and I would fly home to see my parents for Christmas (since I had two weeks off for Christmas).

[thejigsup]

I lost two beloved pets and one beloved person this year. One of my other kitties just cost me $1,500 in vet bills, but he is now fine. Let's all make this year better than last year!