Do you ever feel like you have no one to talk to but wish you did?

[heatspreader]

I lie in my bed at night and can't sleep and wish someone was there with me to talk to me.

[sarey]

I do. Most of the time. Hugs. x

[JeckyllNHyde]

I do too.. Used to feel it a whole lot more before, now I'm busy with work, etc. And only get into bed when I'm sleepy.

I remember staying up till 3am some days watching sitcoms, just b/c I didn't want to go to bed and lie there awake with my thoughts

[Lost Trust]

Actually, that was how I found this place. Sometimes it's nice to have a neutral ear, as long as you're honest with what happened and share things in this community then the responses you receive can be extremely helpful in getting you to a place where you're okay with what you're going through.

[69gto96z]

I always wish I had someone to talk to. I want to fill that void in my life, but I feel like i'm not ever going to meet someone again.

[heatspreader]

I do too.. Used to feel it a whole lot more before, now I'm busy with work, etc. And only get into bed when I'm sleepy.

I remember staying up till 3am some days watching sitcoms, just b/c I didn't want to go to bed and lie there awake with my thoughts

 

I do that a lot too.

[COtuner]

I wish I had someone who wanted to LISTEN. Plenty to talk to, but they don't actually give a darn

[pegasushymn]

i wish i had someone to talk to too. my boyfriend doesn't really understand me and sometimes i feel he doesn't really care. i wish i could confide in my friends about our realtionship but almost all of them are single and will think i'm loose if i ever tell them i'm not a virgin ):

[tina-rocks]

I am constantly wishing I had someone to talk too... gets soooo lonely sometimes I want to cry.

[Shiva 2007]

talking can sometimes be complicated. Whenever I experience that I grab a good book/magazine or crawl to bed watching a favorite tv show till I cradle myself to sleep.

[julioiglesia]

I feel the same way too but.

 

talking is a two way street. There should be someone who can geniunely listen to what you say and have a intelligent convo. This takes energy and most people don't want to do that. So you can talk talk talk talk but if the other person don't listen for real then it is no use.

 

Successful conversation takes two to tango.

You say something and that person listens and helps you get what you want or gives you the solution to your problems. of course those problem ranges a lot. Once you find a understanding and listening person then you can reciprocate but if you haven't found then I rather be by myself and not use up my precious time and energy.

 

That is why going to the bar or club to talk to people is useless. if you are smart you bring that special convo partner there with you.