AJ2003 Posted February 20, 2003 Posted February 20, 2003 Hi, I need some advise on a tricky situation i am in. I have been friends with a lad for about three years at school. About two years ago I met his girlfriend and we have become great friends ever since. My friend broke up with her a couple of weeks ago, and I think he just wanted to experience a relationship with someone else. Anyway his ex contacted me and asked me to help her get back with him. She loved him so much because they had been together for such a long time.I felt sorry for her and she cryed to me on the phone and she was really down However as time went on it was obvious it was over. Ive taken her out shopping and for a meal to cheer her up and get her laughing. Just generally having some fun . She phones me every day and we chat about our days and other things. She's getting over her break up. The problem is I have come to like this girl so much. I had girlfriends before but she is different. She has similar interests, shes attractive, funny, and intelligent, I love her company and I just can't stop thinking about her. I think about her at school, home and work. I know its not lust but I get I funny feeling when I see her. I'm CONFUSED. I could really see myself in a serious relationship with this girl. What do I do? I don't want to hurt my friend by attempting to date his ex. I don't want to lose his friendship, but i don't know how he would feel if a dated her. I don't know if she feels the same way about me. Do I keep my mouth shut and my feelings inside or do I tell her how I feel. What do you think?
lil sis Posted February 20, 2003 Posted February 20, 2003 well ur friend seems to be over her and on with his life, right? so i can't really see how he'd mind. it might be ackward tho. hm. yes, tricky indeed. i'm thinkin that u should wait on it for a while. and maybe talk to ur buddy about it. that's pretty much all i can tell ya! sorry. i jus don't wanna give u bad advice.
SwingFox Posted February 20, 2003 Posted February 20, 2003 In fact lil sis is right. The best thing you can do is to talk to your friend about this situation and explain him what is going on. I would ask his advice on this and ask him how he feels over it. Honesty is the best policy ever! Make that happen. I am sure your friend will appreciate it. Good luck... ~ SwingFox ~
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