Amasa Posted December 23, 2008 Share Posted December 23, 2008 So, he was mad that you called him before the surgery, and he was mad that you called him after the surgery. And he's mad that you didn't call him while he was in recovery????? I think unless ya'll had a conversation before the surgery where he said look the only time I would like to speak to you is in recovery, and no other time. Than he really has no reason to be upset. How were you supposed to know that ahead of time and follow those guidlines??? And if he didn't he's kinda playing with you. I think, anyway. Link to comment
lizzzy111 Posted December 23, 2008 Author Share Posted December 23, 2008 i dont know what he wants from me...and when i apoligized it was still not good enought cause he ignored me when i called later. i dont know what his problem is but it seems like its out of my control because i dont know what to do im walking on eggshells and i cant keep putiing myself in hurtful sitautions where i dont feel like my love is being resipicated its all about him. Link to comment
Amasa Posted December 23, 2008 Share Posted December 23, 2008 What are you apologizing for? That you tried to be there for him in his time of need and he acted like a tool? That you didn't psychicly know that there was only a 3 hour window of opportunity when it was a good time to call? He isn't treating you right and you shouldn't be apologizing while he's treating you bad. I think that you should back off and let him realize that he has made a mistake and he is the one who needs to apologize. I think that you teach people how to treat you, and he is treating you disrespectfully. If you don't want him to continue that behavior you need to show him that it's not something your willing to put up with. Link to comment
lizzzy111 Posted December 23, 2008 Author Share Posted December 23, 2008 yeah ur right ive done evrything i could do Link to comment
diamond78 Posted December 23, 2008 Share Posted December 23, 2008 i dont know what he wants from me...and when i apoligized it was still not good enought cause he ignored me when i called later. i dont know what his problem is but it seems like its out of my control because i dont know what to do im walking on eggshells and i cant keep putiing myself in hurtful sitautions where i dont feel like my love is being resipicated its all about him. Ok seriously, you're dealing with a Man-Child....This is nothing but a power trip. He is using what I call emotional-blackmail in order to control you. That means he is emotionally guilt-tripping you in order to make everything about him and sustaining his control over you. I would drop this guy pronto. If you don't get out of this situation soon, it'll only get worse. And then you'll begin this vicious cycle (it's already starting) of trying to only please him so that he won't get uset with you....but the thing is you'll never be able to satisfy him. Never... Get out now while you still can....Don't let yourself get stuck in this unhealthy pattern. Link to comment
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