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What the heck is going on???


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I'm at THE most confused point I could be at...

My Ex called me up yesterday afternoon wanting me to come over and spend some time with her and her 2yr old daughter. I get there and her daughter was excited to see me and told her mom in baby language that she missed me. My ex was like awww that was so cute.. Then her daughter runs over and starts playing with me and then afterwards I ended up reading her a book. While I was reading her daughter a book, my Ex puts her head on my shoulder.

 

Anyway, later on that night, we had to go to the store to get some gift bags & treats for her daughter's classroom Xmas party. I didn't mention one thing about our relationship while I was with her.Here's where it gets confusing and totally catches me off guard. We pull up to the store and we get out the car. My ex walks over to my side of the car and grabs my hand I was thinking to myself, "I thought she wanted to be friends b/c she needed space". So we hold hands until we get inside the store and I grab a basket. So I'm pushing the basket and then she puts her arm around my arm. I'm thinking to myself, "wow this is what couples do". On a different occasion, while I was pushing the basket, she had slapped me on the butt... One the way out the store, I put my arm around her neck and we walk to the car. My car is dirty b/c it has been raining, so she decides to write her name on the back of my car. Anyway, we get home and I was going to just drop her off and go home, but she insists I go inside. So I go inside for about 5 minutes and then I leave and go home. That was our first time hanging out since we broke up and I think it went fairly well because I didn't mention anything about our relationship and I just went with the flow.

 

I don't understand her actions though, does she want me back? what's going on?

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You need to ask her if she wants you back. Because if she doesn't, it is not fair that she play with your emotions in such a way. It's hard but you are going to have to be the strong one. If you let her "pretend" you both are together, it means she gets the benefits without ANY responsibility. Be careful and be strong and I hope it all works out.

 

Best of luck!

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You need to ask her if she wants you back. Because if she doesn't, it is not fair that she play with your emotions in such a way. It's hard but you are going to have to be the strong one. If you let her "pretend" you both are together, it means she gets the benefits without ANY responsibility. Be careful and be strong and I hope it all works out.

 

Best of luck!

 

I'll ask her that after the holiday break and after New Years', because I know she is stressed because of the Christmas season and she was complaining yesterday that she didn't have any money to get her daughter anything for Christmas and that she hasn't bought her any gifts yet... So instead of me putting my interests before her daughters' and adding additional pressure on her, I'm going to wait until everything clears over before asking her that question.

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