TBK Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 I screwed up and went threw my chicks phone and got caught. she got mad and left. well heres the thing I am wondering if its over but she wont tell me. she said she has nothinig to say and wants to be left alone right now and will call me when she is ready. I know i need to give her the time to figure things out but I asked her if it was over between us and or if we were done and she was gonna leave me, and her answer was she will call me when she is ready. well if i threw it out there I feel like if she really wanted to break up she would have when I gave her the opertunity? I guess I feel that her notwanting to talk to me and or see me is just my way of being punished? I know she still loves me and I know she cares..... but I dunno this may be the straw that broke the camels back ya know? what do you guys think? thanks for your help Link to comment
rose2summer Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 Why were you going through her phone? Do you not trust her? The trust issues makes me question how stable your relationship with her may be. Link to comment
TBK Posted December 19, 2008 Author Share Posted December 19, 2008 we had been having some troubles and i was wondering if she was gonna leave me, but things were getting better and actually great. amost too soon too fast. so i guess i was worried... Link to comment
TBK Posted December 19, 2008 Author Share Posted December 19, 2008 yeah no kidding.... but i guess what i wanted to know is do you think she is gonna leave me? I know nobody really knows but i did ask her and she didnt say so i guess thats good thing.... Link to comment
TBK Posted December 19, 2008 Author Share Posted December 19, 2008 what would you put your money on? Link to comment
waveseer Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 The last thing you should do is keep asking if it's over. Even asking once is just begging for trouble. She's angry with good cause. Let her cool off and think about what she wants to do. Trust is a tricky thing. Link to comment
littlestar Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 Give her some time.... Link to comment
TBK Posted December 19, 2008 Author Share Posted December 19, 2008 5 months tomorrow........ Link to comment
TBK Posted December 19, 2008 Author Share Posted December 19, 2008 think it will be ok little star? Link to comment
TBK Posted December 19, 2008 Author Share Posted December 19, 2008 yyeah well i do trust her, i just have alot of insecurities from previous relationships being left and cheated on and issues i had with my mother... so its been a pretty tough life for me.... but she does know all that so mabye that will help??? Link to comment
Supa_gurl Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 First of all I hope you doesn't know you call her "My Chick". That makes me want to BAWK BA GAWK..... But she does need some time. It sounds this may have been that proverbial straw, however if you leave her alone for a bit, as she wishes, she may be willing to forgive. Link to comment
Pappers Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 sounds like she's just angry or thinking it through.... apologize with a big thing of flowers maybe? Link to comment
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