Is this a sign of rejection from her?

[ladeedah]

asking for a guy friend of mine ........

So I finally got the guts to ask the girl i have a crush on to a small dinner party i was having in 2 days...she wrote back and said "Unfortunatley, I have made other plans for that particular night. I would love to take a raincheck for next time though,ok?" I saw her the day after the party and she asked how my dinner went and i said "OK" and she was like "I get a raincheck, ok?"So does that mean she doesnt like me or she does..and how long should i wait before i make another dinner party to invite her to? I dont want to do it too soon because then i'll look desperate. Do you think i have a chance with her by the way she answered the email?

[ghost69]

that means she wants to have dinner with you another time. be happy. usually if a girl is uninterested she would have told you she was busy and not have mentioned another time at all.

 

why not just take her to dinner, just you and her?

[ImThatGirl]

I agree - ask her out.

[MollyElise]

I think she likes you and you should invite her for dinner one on one.

[solacean]

I agree with the others. Nothing like that has ever happened to me, so it must be a good thing.

[RealBrookeI]

Just wondering why you are asking her out by email?

 

Also, were there other people at this dinner party or is that just your way of asking a woman out to dinner?

[hmdreamer7]

She brought up the 'raincheck' again after the party happened, a definite hint that she wants to go out with you. Set up a date! Can't say myself what's too soon or whatnot, but if I were in her shoes, I wouldn't mind you asking about this upcoming weekend.

[epsilon2x]

I would say go for it. After the first raincheck I might have thought twice about it. Even though it was on short notice. Since she brought it up again, I wouldn't give up on it. She probably didn't just want dinner, she just wanted to go out with you. So I wouldn't take her out to dinner for a first date.