nthalley Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 or do they think it is weak?Why have women who i haven't been on good terms with,or any women rough attitude hot looking res[ponded better?It could have been even something as simple as pickinfg the weights up for them at the gym and handing them to them... Link to comment
COtuner Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 I like when men do this -- all of my close male friends and all the men I've dated were and are gentlemen. I'm not sure picking up weights for a woman is being a gentleman, though. It seems a little invasive if you don't know her. I get into a zone when I am working out, I don't really want to be bothered by total strangers. Handling doors, speaking to them respectfully, not looking at them like they're on the menu, stuff like that is appreciated. Being a gentleman and expecting to get a date because of that, no, it's being a player. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 I like all of that as long as I can tell that it is done sincerely. I can tell when a man I am dating does this just to go through the motions but otherwise has a different - hostile, unfriendly, bitter - vibe about him. Or, if he does it just to seek approval but deep down he resents it. that's icky. Link to comment
Truth317 Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 Of course women like nice guys and gentlemen. They just don't like when men act like that one minute and turn into Freddy Kruger the next. Women love a sincere & gentle man, but they despise push-overs. A man who'll say things or do things just to seek approval or seek validation. I must admit that's not a very good look, either. Link to comment
waveseer Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 What would be the point of a man picking up my weights for me? Isn't that why I lift weights, to lift them? Otherwise, when a man is a gentleman it shows that he respects and values women and his mama and/or papa raised him right. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 of course women like gentlemen. why wouldn't they? they don't like the pansy pushover though. Link to comment
RLW Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 Chivalry is dead, and women killed it Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 Chivalry is dead, and women killed it i still do it. take that back or i will be forced to thrash you. lol Link to comment
waveseer Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 Chivalry is dead, and women killed it Not the same women who like it though. lol Link to comment
Rhonda 2 Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 well I may be older generation, but I won't go out with a man who has no or poor manners. I won't put up with a man who does not take his cap off inside or at table. These are common courtesy things that mama taught them at one time- and they discarded them along the way. Link to comment
COtuner Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 Chivalry is dead, and women killed it NOT true. It's alive and well amongst the men I spend time with. Then again, I hang with preppy types, not hippies, gangstas, pick your label... Link to comment
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