Do women still like when you are respectful and a gentlemen towards them?

[nthalley]

or do they think it is weak?Why have women who i haven't been on good terms with,or any women rough attitude hot looking res[ponded better?It could have been even something as simple as pickinfg the weights up for them at the gym and handing them to them...

[COtuner]

I like when men do this -- all of my close male friends and all the men I've dated were and are gentlemen.

 

I'm not sure picking up weights for a woman is being a gentleman, though. It seems a little invasive if you don't know her. I get into a zone when I am working out, I don't really want to be bothered by total strangers.

 

Handling doors, speaking to them respectfully, not looking at them like they're on the menu, stuff like that is appreciated. Being a gentleman and expecting to get a date because of that, no, it's being a player.

[Batya33]

I like all of that as long as I can tell that it is done sincerely. I can tell when a man I am dating does this just to go through the motions but otherwise has a different - hostile, unfriendly, bitter - vibe about him. Or, if he does it just to seek approval but deep down he resents it. that's icky.

[Truth317]

Of course women like nice guys and gentlemen. They just don't like when men act like that one minute and turn into Freddy Kruger the next. Women love a sincere & gentle man, but they despise push-overs. A man who'll say things or do things just to seek approval or seek validation.

 

I must admit that's not a very good look, either.

[waveseer]

What would be the point of a man picking up my weights for me? Isn't that why I lift weights, to lift them? Otherwise, when a man is a gentleman it shows that he respects and values women and his mama and/or papa raised him right.

[ghost69]

of course women like gentlemen. why wouldn't they? they don't like the pansy pushover though.

[RLW]

Chivalry is dead, and women killed it

[ghost69]

Chivalry is dead, and women killed it

 

i still do it. take that back or i will be forced to thrash you. lol

[waveseer]

Chivalry is dead, and women killed it

 

Not the same women who like it though. lol

[Rhonda 2]

well I may be older generation, but I won't go out with a man who has no or poor manners. I won't put up with a man who does not take his cap off inside or at table. These are common courtesy things that mama taught them at one time- and they discarded them along the way.

[COtuner]

Chivalry is dead, and women killed it

 

 

NOT true. It's alive and well amongst the men I spend time with. Then again, I hang with preppy types, not hippies, gangstas, pick your label...