when doing 69, females...

[hiphop3]

do you put some of your weight on your partner or none?

when ever i've done it i hold my self completely up with one hand, but trying to support myself while using my other hand to help give oral..means i can't give the best oral i could. it doesn't matter where i position my other hand, in front of me between his legs, or by his side. and it just gets tiring after a while.

any pointers?

also i've never done 69 laying side by side, any thing important to know about that?

[PsychGirly]

You shouldn't stay in the same position for too long, or else it does get tiring. You should switch it up to keep it interesting.

 

When you're on top, I find it helps to rest your chest on him while you perform. It takes the weight off your hands for a bit. Don't put the weight on your arms til you can no longer use them lol If you feel like you're getting tired, switch it around n get between his legs, or side-by-side, or even have him try to get on top.

[Prescina]

I find that side by side is not only the most comfortable because it's easier to hold for longer periods of time, it also seems much more intimate. My favorite.

 

BTW Psychgirly, that quote is one of the very best I've ever seen

[thebunny21]

I'm not a fan when the guy is on top- it allows them to get too deep and my gag reflex is too sensitive.

[PsychGirly]

I find that side by side is not only the most comfortable because it's easier to hold for longer periods of time, it also seems much more intimate. My favorite.

 

BTW Psychgirly, that quote is one of the very best I've ever seen

 

Thanksssssssssss (sorry, had to add more characters to post lol)

[jettison]

I think that this is a pretty overrated position to begin with. 16 year old boys love the idea of it, and love saying the name, but the payoff in reality is usually so much less then you imagined it might be.

 

This is one of those positions you try out on new partners for novelty purposes, but one that rarely stands the test of time and makes it into your regular rotation.

[TexasDad]

I think that this is a pretty overrated position to begin with. 16 year old boys love the idea of it, and love saying the name, but the payoff in reality is usually so much less then you imagined it might be.

 

This is one of those positions you try out on new partners for novelty purposes, but one that rarely stands the test of time and makes it into your regular rotation.

 

 

 

I disagree and I am 44 years old...I love it but I also love giving oral

[cyberdog]

In high school there was a parking space number 69. The students were so stupidly immature about it that they eventually replace it as 68+1.

[laisla]

yea you put your knees on the floor which keeps you up. you can put your elbows on the floor too or on his legs. putting your chest on him works too.

[ghost69]

i like doing oral separately. i give you some, then you give me some. very rarely 69, but i still do it. i don't like being on top for it as much as bottom.

[MyheartorHis]

I find it a lot easier to do 69 side ways. That way your arm can hold you up and you still have 2 free hands (and so does your SO)!

[hiphop3]

ya my bf is a huge fan of 69 and i'm not such much. it seems less effective for me and i can't perform as well. but every one in a while we'll do it.

[_Asti_]

I'm not a fan of it, just not a fan of oral sex [receiving] in general.

If I were to receive, I'd rather it be done 69, because I do generally get more turned on from pleasuring him.

 

We've only ever tried it with me on top [HUGE body size differences between us] From what I recall I generally put one hand down and the rest of my weight is supported by him.

[HeartBrokn]

If you are not too heavy I would rest your whole body on him, I enjoy when a chick lays down on me as she is doing her thing, it's more comfortable that way.

[amyamy]

Yea the whole 69 with the guy on top is an interesting position!!

[HeartBrokn]

Yea the whole 69 with the guy on top is an interesting position!!

 

I love to dangle it down like a bird feeding a baby bird with a worm. Just move it around having her chase after it.

[srssatellite]

Unless the girl weighs a significant amount more than the guy, she could probably rest her weight on him without the lose of comfort on the guy's part. And if her mouth gets tired she can always rest her head on his thigh while she uses her hands till the mouth gets rested.