Nine Months

[The_Wanderer]

Nine months of NC and I'm still so sad.

 

I miss her and I love her and I wish she was beside me right now. She's still the best thing that ever happened to me. : (

 

I dunno why...I just felt like posting this. I wish healing went faster.

[Anon333]

so sorry you are still sad...How long were you together? It will get better..Youve come a long way....The progress is so gradual and up and down, it is hard to realize you are growing and changing for the better from all this, but in time you will see it...Everyone on here and everyone in this world can pretty much agree with this.....time goes slow when times are hard, but you should be proud you have made it through this far.....

[littlestar]

Awwwww ((((((((hugs))))))))))) for you and here i am at 93 days thinking why the hell arent i healing and why does he still mean the world to me

[keefy1972]

Sorry to hear you're having a hard time. I want to point out that she IS NOT the best thing that ever happened to you. You are merely idealizing her and your relationship because you miss her. It's natural to do that, but in order to heal, you must stop doing it.

 

Realize that the best thing that ever happened to you would never make you go through pain and anguish. This woman is not perfect. She has major flaws that are in direct contradiction to your need for happiness. Until you openly remind yourself that she is not this perfect girl that got away, you are going to struggle to get over it.

[The_Wanderer]

so sorry you are still sad...How long were you together?

 

We broke up one day before our 31 month anniversary.

 

And thanks, guys.