tara07 Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 i was just wondering if there is a way to tell if your boyfriend is secretly gay or bi. i was on his aim screen name and i found that he had a lot of gay guys on his friends list. i asked him about it and he got mad at me and said that he wasnt. he said that he just added a bunch of random people when he was younger because he wanted to have a lot of friends, but i still dont know where he would get the sns and why so many were gay guys? i dont know. im just worried. its not like i would be mad if he was, just that he would keep it from me or something. i only want him to think about me. please help? Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 So you only think he's gay because he has alot of gay guys on his messenger? Anything else? If not, then I think you are reading way too much into this. Link to comment
hers Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 Welcome to ENA! How do you know they are gay guys? Having gay friends doesn't make him gay. Do you have any other evidence that he may be? Link to comment
Sn0man Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 Welcome to ENA! How do you know they are gay guys? Having gay friends doesn't make him gay. Do you have any other evidence that he may be? I'd like to know this as well... Link to comment
kaoticbaby Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 how did you know they were gay? why were you on his s/n? and even if they were gay, why would you assume that HE was? i'm friends with plenty of gay people, and i'm not. i think you are reading too much into it. and, by the way, it is kind of insulting to ask your boyfriend if he is gay. Link to comment
greywolf Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 i was just wondering if there is a way to tell if your boyfriend is secretly gay or bi. i was on his aim screen name and i found that he had a lot of gay guys on his friends list. i asked him about it and he got mad at me and said that he wasnt. he said that he just added a bunch of random people when he was younger because he wanted to have a lot of friends, but i still dont know where he would get the sns and why so many were gay guys? i dont know. im just worried. its not like i would be mad if he was, just that he would keep it from me or something. i only want him to think about me. please help? I have lots of straight friends and I'm not secretly straight. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 I have lots of straight friends and I'm not secretly straight. Good point... Link to comment
Bad Wolf Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 My best friend is gay and i used to live with a couple gay guys and i'm not gay! i wouldnt worry about it. Link to comment
kaoticbaby Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 I have lots of straight friends and I'm not secretly straight. bahahah, greywolf Link to comment
Nkaleidoscopic Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 How can you tell someone is gay from their screen name? Is my screenname gay to you? Link to comment
redhearts Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 Gay as in happy? Hmm my mom always said to ask a guy to put his hand on his hip, if he did he was gay. Yeh she is a little weirdo, another thing is just to see if he checks out males when you guys go out. Or just how close he is to you in general? Link to comment
Creative Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 lol, lets just say if someone accused me of being gay for having lots of gay people on my msn list, I'll play along. Definitely won't get angry over something untrue and stupid. Lying is futile cause it can too easily be detected. Link to comment
Cloudyday Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 I'd like to know how you can figure out if they're gay just from their sn too. Link to comment
welshieme71 Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 Great questions all! Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 Gay as in happy? Hmm my mom always said to ask a guy to put his hand on his hip, if he did he was gay. Yeh she is a little weirdo, another thing is just to see if he checks out males when you guys go out. Or just how close he is to you in general? Um yeah.. That's way too out there! Link to comment
tara07 Posted December 18, 2008 Author Share Posted December 18, 2008 no. they have like profiles on x-tube and gay dating sites. and i find it weird because according to him he doesnt like gay people Link to comment
tara07 Posted December 18, 2008 Author Share Posted December 18, 2008 i never said i could just tell my their screen names. im not psychic Link to comment
Creative Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 no. they have like profiles on x-tube and gay dating sites. and i find it weird because according to him he doesnt like gay people wasn't there like a judge years back where he stated his opinion about how he hated gay people. Then ended up being caught in an airport washroom getting 'intimate' with a guy? It's p-r-e-t-t-y clear. Link to comment
Sn0man Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 Well, if he indeed does have gay guys on his AIM or whatnot as a matter of fact, not just suspicion, and he's denying it and getting mad, then odds are he's hiding something - whether he actually be gay or bi-curious I have no idea but it's something you should probably look into. Link to comment
Creative Posted December 18, 2008 Share Posted December 18, 2008 The pieces of information you gave us is very conclusive. Link to comment
Imaginary Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 The pieces of information you gave us is very conclusive. If this isn't an ironic post, then I disagree. Girl goes on guy's aim and finds gay people. Or at least, apparently gay people. And then? Link to comment
Nkaleidoscopic Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 If this isn't an ironic post, then I disagree. Girl goes on guy's aim and finds gay people. Or at least, apparently gay people. And then? He gets mad and defensive ... and then? Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 Maybe he was mad and offended that she was on his AIM name in the first place? add on that the fact that she went through his contacts list looking at his contacts and then accuses him of being gay.. Hmm I think that is enough for him to become defensive over it. Link to comment
crosstownTraffic Posted December 19, 2008 Share Posted December 19, 2008 You said he claims not to like gay people, but has quite a few for friends.. that would give me pause to wonder too. But aside from the internet thing, anything IRL that makes you question his sexuality? Is he very fussy, or obsessively clean.. does he check out other guys when you are out in public... Anything in your love life that makes you kinda wonder if he's really str8? All these people laughing at your posts, i don't think that's fair or right. Link to comment
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