gracerules2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 Would it be a turn off if you found out your SO has secretly been feeling guilty about desiring you sexually? Link to comment
lana111 Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 not a turn off. id wonder why he felt guilty though... Link to comment
waveseer Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 It depends on why they feel guilty. Link to comment
gracerules2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Author Share Posted December 17, 2008 Ok let's say you found out somehow that he felt it was wrong to desire you in a sexual way? Let's say you also found out that after every sexual session with you he has gone home and secretly "atoned for" or compensated his guilt by inflicting physical pain on himself for I don't know a good 10-15 minutes? Link to comment
duppy_conqueror Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 well in those circumstances it would be more a wake up call that i'd need to approach my SO and get to the heart of the situation. Link to comment
waveseer Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 I wouldn't be turned off if his beliefs that led him to do such a thing could be discussed so that he didn't have to do it anymore. If I could not help him release the guilt and he was unwilling to seek treatment for it then I would have to be completely turned off by good conscience. Link to comment
lana111 Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 yea...... that would have nothing to do with my attraction for him or her... but id encourage them to see a counselor asap! Link to comment
Sn0man Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 That's pretty weird. Is he super religious or something? I know religion can do that to people. And, sorry, but are you 100% sure he's straight? Link to comment
gracerules2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Author Share Posted December 17, 2008 That's pretty weird. Is he super religious or something? I know religion can do that to people. And, sorry, but are you 100% sure he's straight? I am a guy and yes I'm straight. I consider myself spiritual but not religious. Link to comment
gracerules2008 Posted December 17, 2008 Author Share Posted December 17, 2008 OOPS. Sorry, I missed that. Then above change he with she. Sorry dude!! No problem sir. Link to comment
Samedy Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 Not so much a turn off as a concern. Specifically, I would worry about their mental stability and health... Link to comment
Pappers Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 Yes, something is wrong here. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 17, 2008 Share Posted December 17, 2008 this sounds odd and concerning. Link to comment
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