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Is it unheard of for a woman to help a grown man get a girlfriend by being his coach?

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I asked two girls can they be my dating coach, one of them I used to date but it didn't work out and she said no. Then another girl doesn't want to help me either.

 

So a female can't help a guy get a female he is currently going out with? I was even willing to show my appreciation but they never got to find out because she were not interested.

 

 

I need a female dating coach to guide me so badly. I just wish me and a girl can go out to dinner and talking about my dating problems and how to fix them.

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I asked two girls can they be my dating coach, one of them I used to date but it didn't work out and she said no. Then another girl doesn't want to help me either.

 

So a female can't help a guy get a female he is currently going out with? I was even willing to show my appreciation but they never got to find out because she were not interested.

 

 

I need a female dating coach to guide me so badly. I just wish me and a girl can go out to dinner and talking about my dating problems and how to fix them.

 

I thought you only take girls to dinner on dates. Now you want a girl you're not dating (but tried to) to help you date another girl... by taking them on a date?

 

This post doesn't make sense.

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I asked two girls can they be my dating coach, one of them I used to date but it didn't work out and she said no. Then another girl doesn't want to help me either.

 

So a female can't help a guy get a female he is currently going out with? I was even willing to show my appreciation but they never got to find out because she were not interested.

 

 

I need a female dating coach to guide me so badly. I just wish me and a girl can go out to dinner and talking about my dating problems and how to fix them.

 

is this like a golf instructor?

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Raistlin Enthusiast

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well I'm providing gas money and treating her to dinner. I also would like to be a platonic friend of hers

 

You make it sound like you're doing them a favor.

 

Look, it didn't work the first time, and they've already told you no. Let it go. The advice we offer on this site to you is FREE99 and probably the exact same thing they would tell you... unless they wanted to screw you over.

 

If you're not willing to listen to any of us [who have all been in your shoes, mind] then there is absolutely NO POINT in trying to re-date another girl in the hopes that "she'll give quality advice".

 

It's all a ruse. It's an obvious one at that. Listen here, or go your own way. Either way, you're going to be just as "confused" then as you are now, because no matter what anyone tells you, it will spark a 130 page thread because you "can't understand why they said 'this' when you thought 'that'".

 

Let. It. Go.

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Our advice is for free. What makes you think the women you would take to dinner would tell you anything different?

 

Also, again, why ask a women that you've dated?

 

well we didn't really date, we saw each other twice and then became friends. that was a year ago and we both have moved on so that's why I was surprised when she said no

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