Feeling good

[radwaybill]

I got dumped about 10 weeks ago. I did the usual bad stuff, beg, pleaded, and cried. Every time i talked to her it ended up going badly. I haven't spoken to her in a couple weeks, but I went out to a Christmas Party on Friday for work, danced with a bunch of girls, and just had a blast. (I'm not the dancing type, but a little alcohol, and some persuasive female coworkers, and i ended up dancing for about 2 hours.)

 

I have been feeling better ever since. Sure sometimes i'd like to get back with my ex, but the more i think about it, the more i realize there are things that i didn't like about her, and i wonder if i would take her back, based upon how sh*tty she had made me feel in the past.

 

If she does come back, i'm guessing she is going to have to do some begging.

 

I read all of the forums, and never thought that i would get mad, and decide i can't stand what she did to me, and want to move on, but i do. I have been working out, and I plan on buying myself a new car like i've always wanted.

 

She hasn't come back around, and maybe she never will, but until then, it's time for me to start having fun again. I spent 10 weeks hating my life, and thinking of noone but her. It's time to think about me.

[Umlunguusa]

wow, That's great I wish I had that fortitude; I'm still stuck in my 5 (I made a mistake earlier when I said 4) month obsession with our former relationship, and I wish It'd just go away already, the thoughts about her. They get sparked anew whenever I hear about her or her exploits.

[radwaybill]

Don't get me wrong, i still think about her, but the more i think about it, the more i realize it's her loss,and i can benefit from this whole charade. I'm going out and doing things that i normally would not have done.

 

I'm going to sell a few of my cars, and buy one that i've always wanted. I'm going to upgrade to a nicer place to live. There are a lot of PROs associated with my split that i hadn't thought of.

 

Besides, it wouldn't hurt her to realize that i'm out enjoying myself.