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getting the urge to despise people i don't know - is this normal?


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I just get the uncontrollable urge to hate people i don't know in public. and especially if they look weird or just look like an idiot.

 

I remember a week ago, I was in a bookstore and some ugly man looked at me in the line to the checkout. I just felt an uncontrollable feeling of disgust and revulsion and i scowled at him like there was no tomorrow lol. who the heck is he to look at me, i hate it when people like that look at me lol. I don't care really, since i don't know him or care about him.

 

Is such a feeling normal, and if not, then what should I do about it?

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Since you don't know them well and they haven't done anything to upset/hurt you, then i believe it has to do with you. Maybe it happens most when you feel more irritable or depressed. When you feel like this, it's best to just take a few seconds to calm yourself down and remember that you don't know the person; also ask yourself if you have a lot of tension that has built up. I don't think you should ever allow yourself to scowl at the person though, because it can hurt someone's feelings a lot or anger them. It's never fun to receive bad looks from ppl It's best to just try and cool down when you get these feelings.

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Negative thoughts like that leads to internal turmoil.

 

why? i think it's quite common.

Do you really want to be that person that is so angry all the time?

 

i'm never angry. most people i come accross share my feelings, since whenever we look at weird looking or ugly people who get this feeling. we can't help it, but such is life.

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why? i think it's quite common.

 

 

i'm never angry. most people i come accross share my feelings, since whenever we look at weird looking or ugly people who get this feeling. we can't help it, but such is life.

 

No, it is not common. Why are you stating this if you asked if it was common and got a bunch of responses saying it wasn't?

 

Those thoughts are bound to anger. Happy and content people do not think like this.

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Since you don't know them well and they haven't done anything to upset/hurt you, then i believe it has to do with you. Maybe it happens most when you feel more irritable or depressed. When you feel like this, it's best to just take a few seconds to calm yourself down and remember that you don't know the person; also ask yourself if you have a lot of tension that has built up. I don't think you should ever allow yourself to scowl at the person though, because it can hurt someone's feelings a lot or anger them. It's never fun to receive bad looks from ppl It's best to just try and cool down when you get these feelings.

 

if it's an ugly person, i don't care if i hurt them. as i said, i can't help these feelings, so it sucks for them, i guess.

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