Talking dirty in bed

[dangletsbang]

When I first started having sex with my boyfriend [whom is the first person i've ever had sex with] started doing it and wanting me to do it, it made me turn shy...but now that i'm comfortable with him it's a hugeeee turn on.

[HeartBrokn]

I enjoy when SO talks about a threesome fantasy while we are bonning. It's the closest I ll ever get to a threesome, might as well get it one way or another.

[Taomagicdragon]

Hey, you get left at school for 5 hours because a parent forgets to pick you up and then get back to me. Yes, that has happened.

 

I've waited 7 hours more than once.

[amtjrtcet]

i love it when a woman talks dirty while having sex. makes me climax faster!

 

good to know....we don't want that! lol jk

[dangletsbang]

good to know....we don't want that! lol jk

 

hahahahaha.

[epsilon2x]

I'm a guy. I've had girls talk dirty but I think it sounds a little cheesy. I prefer the good ole moan and scream.

[ghost69]

i usually talk dirty while i'm slappin em around a little bit.

[franfran]

I'm a guy. I've had girls talk dirty but I think it sounds a little cheesy. I prefer the good ole moan and scream.

 

You haven't had the right dirty girl talk to you...

[Taomagicdragon]

You haven't had the right dirty girl talk to you...

 

... or he's not into it.

[g84]

Since i know nothing about this, i feel weird/bad asking but how do you do it? What kind of things do you guys say? I know i sound nosy or something, but i'm really curious lol.

[heaven66]

OH God its a turn on for me..I love it,...i talk as dirty as I can...hhhhhhmmmmmmm And he loves it....

[JadedStar]

I have found this is something that only people who are pretty comfortable with their sexuality can do. I would have died before doing this when i was younger but have no problem now because i go with the flow and do what feels right. People who clam up or who laugh about it probably just are not as comfortable yet. Or maybe they are and this just isn't an aspect of sex that turns them on.

[ay0_x]

I'm a guy. I've had girls talk dirty but I think it sounds a little cheesy. I prefer the good ole moan and scream.

 

 

Yeah, it is a lil cheesy. Especially if the person isn't very eloquent or imaginative.

[Taomagicdragon]

I have found this is something that only people who are pretty comfortable with their sexuality can do. I would have died before doing this when i was younger but have no problem now because i go with the flow and do what feels right. People who clam up or who laugh about it probably just are not as comfortable yet. Or maybe they are and this just isn't an aspect of sex that turns them on.

 

I wouldn't talk dirty mainly because I don't swear (I see it as silly and beneath my vocabulary) and seeing as the majority of taking dirty is a mixture of swears or vulgarity my attempts would be half-finished and prove detrimental to the effect desired.

 

To each their own, however, and if one finds it enjoyable then have at it.

[ay0_x]

I wouldn't talk dirty mainly because I don't swear (I see it as silly and beneath my vocabulary) and seeing as the majority of taking dirty is a mixture of swears or vulgarity my attempts would be half-finished and prove detrimental to the effect desired.

 

To each their own, however, and if one finds it enjoyable then have at it.

 

 

Dirty talking = swearing?

 

Eek. Do you all swear when you dirty talk?!

[Taomagicdragon]

I said the majority includes that or vulgarity, of which I partake of neither, not all of it.

[laisla]

i lurve dirty talk. not like porn.

[yeawutever]

Dirty talking = swearing?

 

Eek. Do you all swear when you dirty talk?!

 

I guess it also depends on how you dirty talk and with what tone of voice, a funny one or serious, boring type. But that must be cool.

[ay0_x]

I said the majority includes that or vulgarity, of which I partake of neither, not all of it.

 

I know, I seized it as an opportunity to wonder if everyone else swore when they dirty talked. I've seen it on TV, but no one's ever 'sworn' at me.

 

If a guy swore at me in bed I'd be quite offended :S

[laisla]

I said the majority includes that or vulgarity, of which I partake of neither, not all of it.

 

really? =\ i don't swear too much when i dirty talk. i just use one F word sometimes. but that would hardly be considered talking. lol

[mr_iwi]

Not sure if I'm being unusual, but I only like it when it's whispered in my ear. Anything out loud looking right at each other just seems a bit porny to me, and doesn't feel right.

 

Firefox is telling me that porny doesn't exist. I think it should do.

[waveseer]

Not sure if I'm being unusual, but I only like it when it's whispered in my ear. Anything out loud looking right at each other just seems a bit porny to me, and doesn't feel right.

 

Firefox is telling me that porny doesn't exist. I think it should do.

 

Hushed tones are the bomb.

[Taomagicdragon]

really? =\ i don't swear too much when i dirty talk. i just use one F word sometimes. but that would hardly be considered talking. lol

 

That is a swear, in fact I'd go as far as to say it's one of the archtypal swear words.

[laisla]

That is a swear, in fact I'd go as far as to say it's one of the archtypal swear words.

 

i know the F word is a swear. i said in my post that i don't swear when i dirty talk. but when i say the F word it is alone or with another word alone ("me"). so that is the only swear word i use.

 

 

[John Bendix]

I have been known to engage in dirty talk when it turns on the other person. Does not do too much for me but I'll "play" along.

 

There seems to be times when the woman gets excited when she is called (usually the opposite of what she is) a * * * * or whatever. I guess it is a fantasy role-play.