How do I compare? and why?

[AB1]

A couple of weeks ago me and a couple of friends all arranged a night out, around town clubbing etc for this coming Saturday.

 

I invited my bf and at first he wasnt interested, but eventually I manged to persuade him.

 

But know hes invited a girl who fancies him (She's brought him Pink champagne, and other things), so its obvious she has feeling for my bf.

I told my bf that I dont mind him inviting people but that I was umcomfy with her coming becuase they have known each other for 6 years (through college). Ive only known my bf a year. How do I compare to that?

 

And how do I deal with it if this girl comes out with us? She knows we are together. My bf said shes trued it on a couple of times but he just isnt interested. How do I believe that now hes invited her out?

 

Sounds petty I know, but I dont want my night to be ruined, when originally it was just me and a few friends and my bf.

[ghost69]

what? he hangs with girls like that?

[Scorpion Fury]

He shouldn't be hanging around her, out of respect for you.

[agent1607307371]

How do I compare to that?

 

Well, he's not made a move on her in 6 years, while he's with you after not knowing you one?

[Sn0man]

Maybe he's bringing her out so you can see for yourself that they're just friends an that you have nothing to worry about.

 

I don't think you should feel the need to compare yourself to his friend.