What to do?

[sophia88]

I just need some advice...

I asked my ex if he could upload some photos from our trip to Europe this past summer because my computer is broken and all of the pictures are on his computer. So he texted me saying that there were too many to upload and that he needed DVDs to burn them on there. So I bought some and let him know that I got them. Now I don't know how to get them to him. I don't know if we should meet up face to face or what...

 

This seems like a lame post but I'm scared that when or if I see him all my "progress" will be lost. Help please

[CarrieB123]

Seeing those pictures could cause some of your progress to be lost as well.

 

Maybe you could drop them off at his house, when he is not there.

[sophia88]

I've already decided to not look at them but there are pictures of friends and amazing places. I feel like I have the right to have those pictures.

[littlestar]

Can u mail it to him?

[sophia88]

I could but I think it would be easier, in a physical sense, just to give the DVDs to him. A big part of me thinks that I could handle seeing him for a second but there's still that doubt. I could drop them off at his house...?

[CarrieB123]

Could a friend go along with you and be waiting in the car? so that 1) you could use it as an excuse not to come in or stay 2) and it would give you reason to stop yourself from staying too long.

[alli]

How long have you guys been apart? Maybe you could arrange to drop them off at a time you know he won't be home, or if you have to go to work early & know he would still be sleeping. Does he have a roommate? That would also work.

[sophia88]

Having a friend with me is a good idea. Thanks!

[sophia88]

2 weeks. I could drop them off in his mailbox, but I don't want to come off as being too weak to face him I want him to know that I'm doing just fine without him.. Even though I'm still hurting from time to time

[CarrieB123]

Good luck sophia, this stuff is tough.

[JMichelle124]

I think you should just drop them off int he mailbox, he isn't going to think about you being weak, if anything at all it'll just look like you don't want to se ehim right now and that is fine and quite frankly seeing him will set you back... and it may not but if I were you I would not want to take the chance that it would... 2 weeks isn't very long, I relasped like 4 times in the past month...