Do you think exes still think of you?

[obsession1607307934]

having a low moment and hope my ex does still think of me...NC for a week now.....

[Dubb]

Yes they are human. Want to know the best way to make them think of you the most? Stay out of site and out of mind. Get over them. They may want you once you're over them and you will decide in a healthy way what you want to do.

[Bunney]

I think my ex will always think of me at some point, not all the time but maybe once in a while, like when something reminds him of me or something. It is inevitable since we were eachother's firsts. I think everybody thinks of their ex sometimes but that doesn't mean they want them back or something.

 

The difference between you and me though is that my break-up was earlier this year, not recent like yours. So I do think that your ex still thinks of you a lot since the break-up is pretty fresh.

[GottaLetItBurn]

Yes they are human. Want to know the best way to make them think of you the most? Stay out of site and out of mind. Get over them. They may want you once you're over them and you will decide in a healthy way what you want to do.

 

This is the truth.

[Perfection]

yes. they do.

[COtuner]

Probably now and then, as someone said, when something reminds them of you. Just as you will of them. You were a part of their life, and the longer you were in it (or if you were there during a significant time) the more they will remember you.

[tushboy]

of course, no matter how BAD the break up was, they do think about you, slowly as you withdraw, and do NC curiosity gets the best of them, and they start lurking around...that's when you gotta be careful.

[Joshua1977]

If you were together long enough. Its too hard not to be reminded of someone you were close with.

[shemo]

I think the longer the longer and more serious the relationship was, the more that person will think of you. It will slowly fade with time but if you were a very significant part of that person's life, than the thought of you will linger for quite some time

[Stella Sleepwalks]

God yeah. Especially if the last time you saw them you held your head high.

[Stella Sleepwalks]

God yeah. Especially if the last time you saw them you held your head high.

 

And to add....My ex didn't hold his head high the last time I saw him, and I do still think of him, but not in the way he'll want me to....

[auburnslp]

Almost all do, sure...but here is the question-what does it really matter? I am sorry to sound harsh, but the truth of the matter is that it's over, for whatever reason. Time to stop thinking of or wondering how they are feeling or thinking...time to pick up the pieces as best we can and begin to move on.

[Stella Sleepwalks]

Almost all do, sure...but here is the question-what does it really matter? I am sorry to sound harsh, but the truth of the matter is that it's over, for whatever reason. Time to stop thinking of or wondering how they are feeling or thinking...time to pick up the pieces as best we can and begin to move on.

 

Exactly. I think you are really starting to heal when you stop thinking about what they're thinking.

[Robert013]

Yes they do think of you. And they will continue to think of you for a long long time. So don't worry about that anymore. Focus on you because you can be assured that they are thinking of you and will never forget you.

[Takotsubo]

Yes, they think of you. And if anything bad happens to their current relationship, they will probably think of you more and want to call you. But most of the time, they won't.

[billy v]

I dont see how you could completely forget about someone that you had a relationship with. Unless it was like a very short one but even then, chances are they would pop up in your head at some point in time.

[laisla]

yes, but not romantically. i still think about my exes, even if they hardly meant anything. it's just reflection.

[pace of ace]

I know my ex still thinks of me, 'cos she tells me she does. Doesn't mean she wants me though.

 

I think aslong as you shared a loving relationship which was filled with mainly good times, your ex will think of you. Definitely.

[lost1607307474]

I don't think of any of my ex-boyfriends in "that" way. I am still good friends with one of them, but I never think of what we had together because it's just too weird since we're friends. My other ex I don't think about at all.

 

I only think about my lovely boyfriend who I'm currently with

[islandj]

Yes they do, my friend just dumped his bf of 3 yrs and he's constantly talking about him and missing him. However it doesnt mean they are getting back together..

 

Do not break NC at this point, this is not too be mean to your ex but rather for you to start healing, you will feel much better over time and if you allow yourself to work things out in your mind!

 

I promised (cant believe Im giving this advice, I didnt believe when others told me back in april!!)

[veneratio]

I never thought mine did, but apparently she does. So I guess so, depending on the situation, how they feel, etc.