not sure if gf see's a future for us

[chessman3]

she said she loved me just after a french kiss which lasted about 2 mins, i said same thing back and also asked her "do you see a future for us?" her reply was "maybe"

 

we have been dating for about a month and has gone very well so far, became bf/gf after about 2 weeks and over the past week we've become very close, i took her away for 3 nights to the family beach house, after we got back i spent one night alone and after that spent another 2 nights with her in a hotel room at the hotel where she works. when im not with her, she says she misses me, i also miss her.

 

im just not too sure why she said "maybe", when i asked her if she saw a future for us. maybe i asked that question too soon?

[littlestar]

she said she loved me just after a french kiss which lasted about 2 mins, i said same thing back and also asked her "do you see a future for us?" her reply was "maybe"

 

we have been dating for about a month and has gone very well so far, became bf/gf after about 2 weeks and over the past week we've become very close, i took her away for 3 nights to the family beach house, after we got back i spent one night alone and after that spent another 2 nights with her in a hotel room at the hotel where she works. when im not with her, she says she misses me, i also miss her.

 

im just not too sure why she said "maybe", when i asked her if she saw a future for us. maybe i asked that question too soon?

 

A month really isn't long enough for most people to know whether they want a future with someone.

 

I'd say just take it slow, enjoy your time with her and see where it goes from there.

[Cognitive_Canine]

she said she loved me just after a french kiss which lasted about 2 mins, i said same thing back and also asked her "do you see a future for us?" her reply was "maybe"

 

we have been dating for about a month and has gone very well so far, became bf/gf after about 2 weeks and over the past week we've become very close, i took her away for 3 nights to the family beach house, after we got back i spent one night alone and after that spent another 2 nights with her in a hotel room at the hotel where she works. when im not with her, she says she misses me, i also miss her.

 

im just not too sure why she said "maybe", when i asked her if she saw a future for us. maybe i asked that question too soon?

 

 

Maybe you both have different definitions of future.

 

You said future meaning serious relationship.

 

Perhaps she took it as marriage and thereforee said maybe?

 

Maybe she just said it to be cute. Play a little hard to get.

 

Don't stress and don't get so heavy so early on. It's been a month. 28 days or so. Enjoy it and don't press too hard.

[redhearts]

Some people know from the start, some don't let themselves know, & some know the person isn't the right one.