koreangelxp Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 im so in shock right now... he wants me back... but im unsure if i want to get back with him... he broke up with me about 2 weeks ago... and he now regrets what he done... and he wants me back... confused... i seriously thought it was over... Link to comment
littlestar Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 Awwwww sometimes u need to break up with someone and be away from them to realize how much they mean to you and how much you really miss them. Think things over carefully before proceeding though. Think of what is it you want. Link to comment
waveseer Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 Has anything changed? Link to comment
koreangelxp Posted December 14, 2008 Author Share Posted December 14, 2008 Has anything changed? what do you mean? Link to comment
littlestar Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 what do you mean? I am guessing she means has anything changed with the reason he wants back? Link to comment
waveseer Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 what do you mean? I mean that he wants you back but there was a reason he wanted you to go away, right? So, has anything changed? Link to comment
lady00 Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 Has the reason for the breakup been resolved? If not, it's just going to happen again. Link to comment
greywolf Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 Is this the same guy that broke up with you awhile ago as well? Link to comment
keefy1972 Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 Good for you. Sometimes space and time apart is the perfect ingredient to re-ignite passion. Link to comment
koreangelxp Posted December 14, 2008 Author Share Posted December 14, 2008 yup this is the same guy who broke up with me a while ago.... almost 2 weeks ago.... hes broken up with me before... but the last time he broke up with me...i begged and pleaded with him to try to work things out.... but this time.... it was different... he just ended it with me... and i didnt try to work things out... i just said okay if this is what you want.... okay its over... and i didnt call him or text or anything and just asked for no contact. and he texted me saying he had my xmas gifts and i went over there to go get them... and he started talking and saying hes sorry and blah blah... and wants us to work things out and blah blah... and im just kinda in shock... because i never expected this... i truly thought things are over and hes done... he gave up on us so its over. so im not sure if i should take him back... i mean i still love him and all but i donno if i want to get hurt again and he breaks up with me every time is christmas... he broke up with me last year too... now this year.... is it going to be the same thing every year?? and just keep breaking my heart every xmas? or what? just somethings to think about... i mean i still love him and all... but i donno.... Link to comment
Stella Sleepwalks Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 Sounds like a bit of a fickle fellow to me...... Its up to you, whatever you decide I hope it works out for you and you are shown the respect you deserve. Link to comment
keefy1972 Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 Maybe you should tell him that you need some time to evaluate the relationship. Let him know that you can't take this on again off again cycle. It's unfair to you emotionally. Of course he will say he understands, but as time goes by, he will begin to freak out because of fear of losing you. Most people don't do this because they are afraid that the ex will run off when, in reality, it makes them appreciate you more and treat you better. Link to comment
greywolf Posted December 14, 2008 Share Posted December 14, 2008 Honestly, I think a person that breaks up with their partner every time there's a problem in the relationship is not someone who you will be happy with in the long run. Link to comment
littlestar Posted December 15, 2008 Share Posted December 15, 2008 Sounds like he has made a habit out of breaking up with you. I think you really need to think through this very well before making any concrete decisions and careful not to get "caught up in the moment". Link to comment
koreangelxp Posted December 15, 2008 Author Share Posted December 15, 2008 i know... this is a very tough choice to make... i know hes hurt me and put me thru a lot... but i still love him... i know i just need time to think about things... and see what i really want... and if its even worth trying again. Link to comment
littlestar Posted December 15, 2008 Share Posted December 15, 2008 This is going to sound mad in a situation like this but TRY to make this decision with your head and not your heart. Link to comment
koreangelxp Posted December 15, 2008 Author Share Posted December 15, 2008 This is going to sound mad in a situation like this but TRY to make this decision with your head and not your heart. lol trust me i have been thinking about it with my head... lol why do you think im so confused... lol my heart and my head are working against each other lol.. Link to comment
Shyguy24 Posted December 15, 2008 Share Posted December 15, 2008 I would get back with. Maybe he has realized your worth and is really repenting for his stupid decisions. Talk to him though, about all your guys problems earlier on and how he feels he can address these issues. Also when you get back together, dont go all cylinders charging in , let him show you he is serious. Link to comment
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