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Is it easier if your ex is happy or sad?


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I see a lot of people upset because their ex seems to be happier without them; but what if it seems to be the opposite? If your ex is always sad and depressed?

 

I used to think I wanted him to hurt, but I find it doesn't help either way, and may even be hindering my progress because I think, "If he's sad, maybe he wants to try again..." when I know at this point I just need to move on.

 

My ex was sad when he was with me, and he's sad without me, for reasons that may or may not have to do with me. I don't know how to feel about this.

 

Any thoughts?

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My ex goes through ups and downs, but it's mostly her being sad/depressed. I believe it has nothing to do with me, instead it's because she doesn't have anyone to be with.

 

I thought I'd get some satisfaction from it, but no. It upsets me a bit. I went through all that I did and learned so much, grew so much. What did she gain from us breaking up? Nothing. She's still searching for her savior. Makes me sad for her a bit.

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