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I like this girl who has a boyfriend.... but I am shy

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I really like this girl at my school, but she already has a bf. I'm just crazy about her... but I'm really shy and it was so lame because last year I had PE with her... she sat like right behind me... but I couldnt even manage to talk to her... I don't konw why... I would really want to get to know her better... or be her friend... but I don't know what to do, I'm totally confused and distressed mentally, i feel heartbroken... What should I do??????

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Dude she has a boyfriend. What are you complaining about? Why don't you find a single girl? I've got a beautiful girlfriend who gets hit on alot and it sucks. Last semester we were having problems and some guy started talking to her even though he knew she had a boyfriend. She and I had been together for 5 years and we were each other's firsts. He somehow managed to change her feelings about us and left me and ended up having sex with him. She felt she made a huge mistake that she couldn't take back and now we are back together trying to have a relationship with this. This is the most stressing and depressing thing I've ever had to go through. You can't imagine what it is like. It's incredibly heartbreaking for me and her. Try to put yourself in my shoes. Don't be one of those scum bags.

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I think you would get yourself in a difficult situation when you would try to get in between her and her b/f, but there is nothing wrong with you being friends, as long as it stays like that.


Should she ever break up with him and she has completed a healing process, then it might be possible for you to do some more. But till then, I really recommend you to stay friends with her, to protect your feelings of getting hurt.


Good luck


~ SwingFox ~

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