ConfusedDater Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 "I'm really looking forward to seeing you again" Or should I not say it at all? Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted November 21, 2008 Author Share Posted November 21, 2008 Is it true? Yes, I was just wondering because this 3rd date stuff is all new to me and sometimes you have to wait to say certain things but I will defintely say it before our next date. Link to comment
TBE_1989 Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 Sometimes you should wait to say certain things. An ''I love you'' or a ''I want to be with you forever'' before a third date would be most inappropriate (and scary!) here, but saying you can't wait to see her again is really sweet and I'm guessing she'll get off the phone with a big smile on her face if you say that. I know I always do. Having reassurance that the person you're dating is as into you as you are into them is a big relief and great cause for happiness! Go for it! Link to comment
waveseer Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 Yes, I was just wondering because this 3rd date stuff is all new to me and sometimes you have to wait to say certain things but I will defintely say it before our next date. I know everyone gives advice about playing it cool, but don't play it so cool that you behave like somebody you are not. If you still have your own life, you are good to go. Just be yourself. Link to comment
kaoticbaby Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 a simpler "can't wait!" is a little less intense, and will definitely make her smile. say it.! Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted November 21, 2008 Author Share Posted November 21, 2008 Sometimes you should wait to say certain things. An ''I love you'' or a ''I want to be with you forever'' before a third date would be most inappropriate (and scary!) here, but saying you can't wait to see her again is really sweet and I'm guessing she'll get off the phone with a big smile on her face if you say that. I know I always do. Having reassurance that the person you're dating is as into you as you are into them is a big relief and great cause for happiness! Go for it! also this will be my first time ever in life saying something like this to a girl over the phone. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 i'd do it. follow it up with 'it'll be fun'. Link to comment
girl68 Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 Why not? If you can't wait tell her. The only time it will scare her off is if she doesn't like you that much. My guy texted me after the second date saying: "I hope I get to see you tomorrow, I need my fix" (not a sexual innuendo I thought it was the cutest thing ever! Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted November 21, 2008 Author Share Posted November 21, 2008 i'd do it. follow it up with 'it'll be fun'. what about-"I can't wait to see you again, I always feel so comfortable when I'm around you" OR "looking forward to seeing you again on tuesday mainly because you are so easy to talk to" Keep in mind I'm new at this Link to comment
Aviatormy Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 Say "So, tonight when we do the deed... Paper or plastic?" Works like a charm! lol JK. Of course! I think that she will like that a lot. Especially because by the 3rd date, she is most likely on cloud 9 already. Link to comment
StrawberryYogurt Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 Don't say that. If you're going out with her again, it's obvious you're looking forward to it. I don't think it will hurt or help you either way, I guess. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 what about-"I can't wait to see you again, I always feel so comfortable when I'm around you" OR "looking forward to seeing you again on tuesday mainly because you are so easy to talk to" Keep in mind I'm new at this i'd replace the bold with something more like 'we always seem to have a good time.' i dunno, the comfortable thing is good, but i think it's a bit too personal this early. that's just me. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted November 21, 2008 Author Share Posted November 21, 2008 i'd replace the bold with something more like 'we always seem to have a good time.' i dunno, the comfortable thing is good, but i think it's a bit too personal this early. that's just me. Ok I will do that, Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 does it make sense though CD? i don't want you to do it cause it sounds good and you agree with my advice. i want you to do it cause you feel it's what you feel is appropriate for you. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted November 21, 2008 Author Share Posted November 21, 2008 does it make sense though CD? i don't want you to do it cause it sounds good and you agree with my advice. i want you to do it cause you feel it's what you feel is appropriate for you. I feel it's appropriate, I just want to start turning it up a little, not too much but just a little Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 Absolutely...if it is true then say it. I am sure she will be pleased to hear it. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 i might have missed it, but did you kiss this girl yet? Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted November 21, 2008 Author Share Posted November 21, 2008 i might have missed it, but did you kiss this girl yet? Oh no, I haven't even thought about that yet, just let me get to a 4th date before I think about that Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 i'd try this date for this if you feel it. maybe at the end. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted November 21, 2008 Author Share Posted November 21, 2008 i'd try this date for this if you feel it. maybe at the end. yeah but I don't want to be in a rush to do it especially when I never did it before Link to comment
hers Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 yeah but I don't want to be in a rush to do it especially when I never did it before You've never kissed someone before? Or just at the end of a date? If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. But yes, say to her on the phone you're looking forward to seeing her--it's sweet and she'll like it. Link to comment
deleted-account Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 You need to go in for a kiss. If you go 3 dates without a kiss she may start to think you're not really interested. Nothing heavy, just a simple kiss at the end of the date. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted November 21, 2008 Share Posted November 21, 2008 *smooch* 'good night' and be on your way. Link to comment
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