does he like me?

[yumicecream]

The other day I was flirting with this guy and the guy I've thought was hot for a little while now came up and started watching the tv right next to us. Do you think he was genuinely that into the tv or that he was jealous and came over b/c of that?

 

Sometimes I catch him looking at me but I think he might know I like him and thats why.

[Maelstrom X]

He got jealous of course.

 

When you create competition your stock automatically goes up...way up.

 

Keep being indirect and playful he'll step up. Don't let him just walk in and take it when he goes for it. Make him earn every step. This way he'll be a keeper if you actually like the real him.

[bostonbruins24]

Possibly,but it's too little information to accurately say if he has any interest.

[yumicecream]

When I first met this guy, I felt like there was chemistry. He was really hot and funny. He laughed at my jokes. But then things became weird, like he started to make me really nervous and it was like I couldn't be around him anymore. Now, I kind of wonder if he thinks I'm a freak. I told a couple ofpeople I thought he was cute and they might have told him. All speculation, I just don't really know.

[cafecomleite]

sounds like he likes you.

[yumicecream]

Yeah but the last time I saw him, I said Hi, and he didn't smile or anything. I was in a hurry. And then, when I was briefly trying to mess with him, it seemed like he was ignoring me. I had this little telescope and I pointed it at him, and he didn't react. He's kind of hard for me to read. What should I do next? Just sit it out?

 

He's really good looking, this guy doesn't have to work hard to get women...girls throw their numbers at him a lot, I'm sure.

[cafecomleite]

If all else fails, smack him upside the head and say that you like him.

At least then you'll get a yes or a no.

[yumicecream]

Lol, I don't know if I like him. If he likes me, I like him.

[Batya33]

Sounds like he might be attracted to you. Whether he wants to date you is unclear of course.

[yumicecream]

Wow! Everyone seems to think he's attracted to me! Thats pretty neat, he's super hot! I'll just have to wait though. I mean, I've told others I found him attractive...it might have gotten back to him but I've been too nervous around him...I kind of avoid him now. I gotta remember: don't care, be apathetic, cool, confident.

[ghost69]

Lol, I don't know if I like him. If he likes me, I like him.

 

 

[drewciouS281]

Lol, I don't know if I like him. If he likes me, I like him.

 

W T F is that???? How old are we now? You either like him or you dont! Thats all there is to it!

[yumicecream]

Whatever, to each their own.

[drewciouS281]

you never answered my question? how old are you two?

[yumicecream]

He's younger- 20. I'm 26. I talked about him a few months back asking about whether it would be weird. I don't care if its weird, if he was interested, I'd go for it.

[ghost69]

let's say you have no idea if he is interested or not, are you interested?

[yumicecream]

I think he's hot. I don't know enough about him to be really interested. If he turns out to be a cocky * * * * , no.

[ghost69]

I think he's hot. I don't know enough about him to be really interested. If he turns out to be a cocky * * * * , no.

 

there is your answer then. that's why people hang out, date, etc. they find out.

[yumicecream]

there is your answer then. that's why people hang out, date, etc. they find out.

 

If I see him again, what should I do? Its really hard cuz its at work and we're really busy sometimes. Its a menial job so I don't really care that its at work (some people say don't mix work and pleasure blah blah, I don't care about that--I'm moving in a few months anyways).

[drewciouS281]

are you much of a social person or drinker? If so his age is going to be an issue? Keep in mind at that age, hardly anything is taken seriously so thereforee it would just be more so a fling.

 

Im seeing a 22 yr old and im 27 and ive been talking to a 36 yr old also so i know age may not matter to the fullest but i will admit the 36 yr old is more on the same level as me than the 22 yr old. Be careful!

[ghost69]

^^^i can attest to drew's words yum. my head was not on straight at that age. just start up a conversation with him and flirt some more.

[yumicecream]

Different guys are different. I met a guy today who is WAYYYY more mature than I ever was at his age. He owns a HUGE house and a condo and is only 24 and he was trying to hook me up with his friend.

[ghost69]

a house and condo makes you mature? hmm....

[yumicecream]

well, if anything it shows the maturity to be financially stable if he was ambitious and did it without parents. in any case, i don't like it when people try to pick apart my words. nooot really why i posted.

[ghost69]

an anonymous person making a comment gets you wound up? i wasn't trying to pick apart your words. sure, financial stability is a level of maturity, but doesn't mean someone is more mature than another. in that aspect yes.

 

not trying to offend.