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last night my boyfriend went to the bar with his dad, sister and brother-in-law.

from what I hear he was pretty trashed and he said a waitress came up and

started talking to him about his hat because it was her favorite team too..

the * * * * er asked for her number..and told me about it. he made sure to make

it clear that he was only calling her to talk about football hahah, that makes

a lot of sense huh?! he asked if it was okay and I said yeah and I don't really

care cause I was out with my brother and his friends last night drinking too

but should I be worried about this?

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You should be concerned. He asked for her number to talk about a football team? People can have things in common but that doesn't mean it is a reason to call them & talk about it. Sounds like an excuse to get her number. I can't believe he even told you. I wouldn't be okay with that.

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last night my boyfriend went to the bar with his dad, sister and brother-in-law.

from what I hear he was pretty trashed and he said a waitress came up and

started talking to him about his hat because it was her favorite team too..

the * * * * er asked for her number..and told me about it. he made sure to make

it clear that he was only calling her to talk about football hahah, that makes

a lot of sense huh?! he asked if it was okay and I said yeah and I don't really

care cause I was out with my brother and his friends last night drinking too

but should I be worried about this?

 

yea i would be concerned, so much in fact i would rethink dating him as this kind of personality wouldn't really jive with mine. I know some might think that pretty harsh, but that is how poorly this behavior would sit with me. But maybe you two play these games becuase your response to only say you were out drinking too was also kind of childish. Suonds like you two like pulling each others strings.

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I'm not trying to be childish or play games and he says he's not either, but

what he says and does is two different things I'm starting to realize. but I

wouldn't get someone's number because I liked their HAT, what kinda excuse

is that? it just kinda makes me wonder but I've been keeping myself at a

distance anyways, it's only been three months it just kinda seems like a red

flag to me.

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He said he got her number because they are fans of the same football team, so he's going to call her to talk about plays, favorite players, recent games, etc? Millions of people can be fans to one pro team; that doesn't seem like a reason to call a complete stranger.

 

I think he told you so he could call her with a clear conscience, knowing that you know & said you were okay with it. I highly doubt neither of them are attracted to each other & I would bet there is a good chance it would progress to him cheating on you. Just the fact that he got her number is a BIG sign that he is not loyal to you. I really think you should talk to him about this. In a relationship, it is NOT okay to get phone numbers of the opposite sex for social reasons. If can't handle dating you exclusively, you either need to accept it & share him or dump his ass.

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yeah the way he put it was just weird and I definitely felt like there was

something he was trying to hide. in a way it doesn't make me feel so bad

that he TOLD me, but then again he'd try to make it look like he was being

honest and nothing was going on. I just have a feeling about it, he's told

me stories about girls coming up to him in bars while we were talking before

we finally made anything official so I could really see him picking some bar

hoe up and taking her home. I don't know how I feel about him yet.

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he said when he asked for her number she said she had a boyfriend, and he

told her he didn't care cause he had a girl too. honestly something about it

is kinda making me uneasy even though it's totally not like me to care about

something like this, somethin's just shady

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I wonder if this girl even knows he has a g/f.

 

Sometimes a girl wants a guy more if she knows he has a gf because since he's taken he's less attainable and we all want what we cant have, and also because its the thrill of taking something that belongs to someone else.

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You should be concerned. He asked for her number to talk about a football team? People can have things in common but that doesn't mean it is a reason to call them & talk about it. Sounds like an excuse to get her number. I can't believe he even told you. I wouldn't be okay with that.

 

i wouldn't be concerned. Some chicks just like football

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WOW. it's one thing to just chat it up with someone, another thing to get someone's number... cuz you might never call, but a completely different thing to actually WANT to call. he crossed too many lines and putting himself in a situation where he could potentially cheat. i do appreciate the honesty from him but still... come on.

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