thewiseone Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 if your looking for a long-term relationship what kind of man physically are you attracted to? as in: Muscular and Ripped (like a body builder) Muscular and ripped (like an athlete, soccer/basketball/ruby player) In shape with a little extra (Stays active in the gym can see remnants of a six-pack) Extra for love (the average guy that hits the gym when can) Thick (does physical work but loves a beer and some fast food) a whole lotta love (bring him his food cause he ain't getting up) Skinny organic guy (doesn't workout, eats healthy naturally skinny) be honest and please explain to the best of your knowledge Link to comment
CAgirl Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 2. Because I like to know that a guy can keep up with me since I too am into sports Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 wait, is the little extra muscle? Or the little extra fat? Link to comment
waveseer Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I don't have a type per se. For me it's all about personality. I've liked some pretty heavy guys because they had so much peace about them. I've like some ripped guys that really turned me off due to their self-centeredness. In general it's better when he can keep up but that doesn't take much muscle, just stamina. Link to comment
thewiseone Posted November 9, 2008 Author Share Posted November 9, 2008 fat... but obviously not that much if you can still see his six-pack (since 90% of guys gain around the middle first) Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 Then, I'd take the 2nd guy. But, I wouldn't want my guy to be ripped per se.... Link to comment
Batya33 Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 No type but health/fitness is important to me so obesity would probably be a turn off. I also am not typically attracted to skinny guys. Link to comment
enchanted771 Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I guess 3. I like men that take care of themself and somewhat fit but not a body builder. Link to comment
laisla Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 i am fine with # 2, 3, 4,5 and 7. but in the past i've tended to go for 3, 4 and 5. Link to comment
Abbygail Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 7. But honestly physically I'm all about the hair. I'd be willing to go for a guy a little thicker than what I prefer if he had the hair. (Just not 6.) Link to comment
shikashika Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 #2, i like to keep in shape so I'm hoping the guy would as well. #3 is confusing, how could you have a 6 pack but a bit extra as well? a 6 pack is pretty lean I've never been a fan os skinny guys or fat guys who don't take care of themselvs however, I'm hoping there is a brain that goes with my #2 muscular ripped guy! Link to comment
lila... Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 2, 3, and 4 for me! I'd rather go for average guys though, not too muscular/ ripped and certainly not one that spends too much time at the gym, so I'm going more for number 4. As long as they're not overly thin or overweight I don't care much for body, face is more important to me. Link to comment
yokohama_mama Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 Physically it's more about the face/hair for me, so body-wise I would accept anything but #6 Link to comment
sadenni Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I'd say 4. Athletic bodies look nice and all, but too much muscle/too many veins kinda turn me off. I like my guy with a little extra meat (lol), better for cuddling. Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 when it comes to body and long term it doesn't matter to me...i would prefer to be with someone who takes care of himself but i am more about connection than physique Link to comment
Bad Wolf Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 Well, i'm glad some you ladys like us skinny guys I find it hard to gain weight. Link to comment
hk87 Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I don't like really skinny guys, but a little extra is fine. I'm not a really skinny girl, so I would look kinda silly with someone who is like that! hk87 Link to comment
D_Lish Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I have to say I do prefer a guy 'well made', but not as in having bodybuilder muscles, fat, or obese and I don't go for skinny men. Saying that, my ex H was on the thin side..... It is a total waste of time having a 'type' and because you don't often end up with what you may have been/or are looking for. Sometimes people come along who we sooooo may not be looking for, but something just 'clicks'..... Link to comment
Sn0man Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I actaully have to wonder what turns a woman on to a skinny guy, as you say above dragonlady (coincidence that I see you here haha - not chasing your posts around lol) ... they just are ... well ... not equipped. I'm not trying to slash them, but most men are either bulky, big and tall, or athletic. Skinny guys as far as I know are those ones who spend their days in front of the PS, or are just (in my own observation) the pathetic ones with no aggressive drive or competive bone in their body. Don't go lighting my azz on fire for that, but from where im ...er.... lifting weights...hahah thats how i see them. How do you see them? Link to comment
Bad Wolf Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I actaully have to wonder what turns a woman on to a skinny guy, as you say above dragonlady (coincidence that I see you here haha - not chasing your posts around lol) ... they just are ... well ... not equipped. I'm not trying to slash them, but most men are either bulky, big and tall, or athletic. Skinny guys as far as I know are those ones who spend their days in front of the PS, or are just (in my own observation) the pathetic ones with no aggressive drive or competive bone in their body. Don't go lighting my azz on fire for that, but from where im ...er.... lifting weights...hahah thats how i see them. How do you see them? Grow up, did you ever stop to think that some of the skinny guys have medical problems and cant gain weight or maybe they cant afford as much food as others? The thing I cant believe is chicks fall for guys like you, I'd pick a skinny person over an * * * * * * * like you anyday. Link to comment
ColdHands... Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 You cant generalize / stereotype like that at all. Some of the guys I train with are the gentlest guys around and they're massive. Its just like saying all good looking girls are stupid! Link to comment
k-rock Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 For a long term relationship, mine is somewhere between 3 and 4. I like a guy to be lean and fit but I don't want him to have too much muscle or too much fat. I like him to be comfortable in his body though. I don't like it when guys are all down on themselves but I like them to look and feel 'real'. If they're too ripped I feel like it consumes too much of their time / energy maintaining that. I'd rather date a guy who is comfortable with the way his body is meant to look. Moderate diet, moderate exercise. Link to comment
ColdHands... Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 That's what I thought about my ex. I thought he wouldn't hurt a fly...well...you know what happens next. At least it wouldn't have been so bad with someone who was closer to my strength range. I'm only small (5'5 and 110 lbs). So, I'm not exactly stereotyping, but you get burned once, you don't do it again- at least I don't. Besides, there are plenty of hot, skinny guys around. I'm happy to have them all to myself. Sure...but in my opinion, thats narrow minded. (sorry) Link to comment
ColdHands... Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 Because you're generalizing. I understand that you were hurt and dont want that to happen again, but theres no guarantee that all skinny guys are gonna be oh so gentle. Guys regardless of their size are generally stronger than girls so if he intends to hurt you, you're gonna get hurt. Sorry to be so blunt...but its the truth. Link to comment
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