Girls: Sex without condoms... different???

[woebegone]

Hey, quick question... I've never had sex without a condom (and won't until I'm married). Tell me ladies... does it feel different at all? I don't enjoy them all that much, sometimes they can make it quite uncomfortable. But they're a necessary evil (they're more effective than other barrier methods). I'm sooo looking forward to not having to use them! So does it feel different???

[PsychGirly]

CONGRATULATIONS!

 

I hate condoms.

 

It feels VERY different.

 

That's all I have to say.

[thebunny21]

This is why I love my birth control. I HATE condoms. I have a slight allergic reaction to them and after sex, I am very uncomfortable. For the last few years I've been on birth control, I have rarely used a condom.

[girl68]

At least your safe. I don't think it feels all that different. I don't use condoms anymore (monogomous and clean), but I the thing I remember most is "feeling closer" to my partner... It's like coke and pepsi, to know a difference I need one, then the other.

[KarboNeTik]

Honestly, I can't tell the difference... not that I get much. But still! Really can't tell.

Use them all the time, doesn't bother me.

[alli]

I don't think it feels that different. Mostly it makes it feel different for the guy. I also don't like to use them because they give me UTIs & they smell.

[redhearts]

This is why I love my birth control. I HATE condoms. I have a slight allergic reaction to them and after sex, I am very uncomfortable. For the last few years I've been on birth control, I have rarely used a condom.

 

To latex? Don't they have alternatives?

[ghost69]

for both the guy and the girl, yes 1000% different.

[Ac143]

I can say I dont mind condoms, me and my SO use them. I dont like using birth control so we are back to condoms. It felt a little different.... not a HUGE difference.

 

I think it would be a bigger difference for the male.

[SapphireNoir10]

Yeah I dont notice much difference. Truly doesnt bother me either way.

[doyathink]

I HATE them...but wouldn't do it without one.

It feels like night and day to me.

[hers]

I hate them. Hate! They dry me out so quickly & I can't have sex as long with them. Then I usually have an allergic reaction to them (can't use sheepskin though bc they don't protect against stds). I usually just don't use them if I know who I'm with.

[BellaDonna]

Hey, quick question... I've never had sex without a condom (and won't until I'm married). Tell me ladies... does it feel different at all? I don't enjoy them all that much, sometimes they can make it quite uncomfortable. But they're a necessary evil (they're more effective than other barrier methods). I'm sooo looking forward to not having to use them! So does it feel different???

 

It definintely feels much better without a condom. I hate using them.

 

If I was not married, I would definitely use them all the time, regardless.

[pboy]

i was always wondering the same thing.

i could definitely tell the difference. it made things less fun

[Seraphim]

It has been a while, but I can not remember a huge difference.

[thebunny21]

To latex? Don't they have alternatives?

 

I have tried several different condoms, and none of them were any better. They always irrate me.

[lana111]

i dont feel that much of a difference... but that difference is probably in my head bc i like knowing that my partner is skin to skin with me.

 

 

actually i cant comment bc i havent used them in ages.

[shikashika]

HAtd condoms, but will use them unless in in a committeed relationship.

 

Feels a million times better without... and all guys say it feels way better too.

[Stars_n_Guitars]

okay so it's been years since i had unprotected sex. I don't know if it's the condom itself or the lubricant/spermicide, but condoms feel so uncomfortable! I hate condoms....but they are necessary to protect against std's and pregnancy...so if I want to have sex, it's the price I have to pay. Can't wait until I can have unprotected sex...safely. then again, I guess you aren't ever 100% safe.

[Jetta]

You feel more without condoms. Your more sensative. I've had to use condoms even while married because I can't take birthcontrol due to a blood clotting disorder. And I didn't want to be having 20 kids, not that I would but still. Protection was necessary.

[amtjrtcet]

Yes its different...I definitely like it better without, but will not do it without unless I'm in a VERY serious relationship. TOo many diseases out there.

[livinginsbi]

I hate condoms.. words cannot express the difference, that' s how different if feels

[lumu]

OMG feeling a man you love burst his seed deep inside you is so powerful and you have such a great big O.

 

 

The sensation is 1000 times better.

[Abbygail]

I haven't noticed a difference yet. Maybe because I haven't gotten to the point where sex doesn't hurt.

[JeckyllNHyde]

i dont notice a difference besides PEACE OF MIND. lol. i'm able to relax knowing i'm taking precautions (i dont use BC, but i think even if I used the pill i'd want "extra protection". i feel bad for my bf though b/c i know how much he loves it without.

 

for me, i dont feel a difference. i havent had much sex without condoms, maybe twice. the only bummer with condoms is always having to make sure they are not broken, or havent torn during sex. or that they are still on. ugh.