IAMQUEEN06 Posted January 31, 2004 Share Posted January 31, 2004 Hi Everyone I'm a new memeber and I need some advice. I'm in a relationship with this guy and we've been together for about a month... although I am in so way shape or form a shy person I find it hard to talk or show affection towards him at all. He gets upset and complains that he thinks I don't like him the way he likes me because of the way I act. Does anyone have any ideas or advice on how I can become comfortable around this guy before I lose him? Link to comment
abcd1234 Posted January 31, 2004 Share Posted January 31, 2004 Just talk to him and tell him that you are a shy person, he likes you so he will understand and hopefully try to make you more comfortable around him. The more you get to know him the more comfortable you will become, it just takes some time - thats all. Link to comment
abcd1234 Posted January 31, 2004 Share Posted January 31, 2004 Just talk to him and tell him that you are a shy person, he likes you so he will understand and hopefully try to make you more comfortable around him. The more you get to know him the more comfortable you will become, it just takes some time - thats all. Link to comment
DanRockstar Posted January 31, 2004 Share Posted January 31, 2004 Hey IAMQUEEN06, it turns out I've been dating this girl for a little while (I posted about her before and I finally got her and I really want to show her more affection than I have, but I'm a shy guy - and she's a shy girl so we're both waiting to find her way. I'm confident that you wont lose him because I'm in the situation where I know it will happen where things will just feel 'right' someday and sparks will fly if you know what I mean... it's just a question of patience on his part. Even though you might be a confident person usually situations like this can make us all a little nervous, you'll get more comfortable with time Good luck! Dan Link to comment
Lone_Ranger Posted February 1, 2004 Share Posted February 1, 2004 Shy? My Gf is a very shy person also, she took abt 1 month to hold hands with me comfortably..... At the beginning of the relationship, i really thinks she don't have feelings for me just trying to try out with me..... When i went after her the taught of she likes me too never cross my mind, but when suddenly i ask her to be in a love relationship, she say yes..... It's kinda un-healthy actually, I always felt 1-sided N wants to leave her but when i ask her whether she really wants to be with me, she very firm with her ans.... so we ended to be still together cos i don wish to hurt her.... But i felt like not being showered with care N love..... It's takes time but don take it too lightly..... Link to comment
Painfullyshy23 Posted February 1, 2004 Share Posted February 1, 2004 I know is hard when your shy but listen if he relly cares for you he'll understand if you speak with him, but you know I'm shy and I don't trust anyone just be careful he dosen't already know this and is just rying to get to get something else you know Link to comment
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