SadOldMan Posted October 23, 2008 Share Posted October 23, 2008 I'm as good as there. It's taken far longer than I had hoped, but as a lot of people say, "it'll take as long as it takes". 13 years is a long time. I hadn't heard from my ex since she sent me a letter (I didn't read) and approached me to ask to talk (I declined). Yesterday, I received a message from her on the dreaded Facebook I didn't even know she had an account! Nothing much in the message. I was just left wondering "why!?". I'm surprised at how I felt about it. Some anger returned, as well as hurt...."take care x" indeed I dunno Link to comment
melrich Posted October 23, 2008 Share Posted October 23, 2008 You mean it is 13 years since you broke up or you were together 13 years? Link to comment
Loki71 Posted October 23, 2008 Share Posted October 23, 2008 You mean it is 13 years since you broke up or you were together 13 years? Oh god please tell me you were together 13 yrs and not that it took that long to hill. I am only on day 3 and am nuts. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted October 23, 2008 Share Posted October 23, 2008 I too am confused. Have you been together 13 years or broken up 13 years? Link to comment
SadOldMan Posted October 23, 2008 Author Share Posted October 23, 2008 Heheh. 13 years together. She dumped me 2 years ago this December. Yet she is the one who contacts me! She has someone. Has been with him since the breakup. She seems to try and get a response from me every few months. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted October 23, 2008 Share Posted October 23, 2008 What for? That's just plain cruel if she has someone..... Link to comment
SadOldMan Posted October 23, 2008 Author Share Posted October 23, 2008 In June she sent me a 3 page typed letter. I read the last line. Something about wanting answers so she could move on with her life. Huh!? Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted October 23, 2008 Share Posted October 23, 2008 In June she sent me a 3 page typed letter. I read the last line. Something about wanting answers so she could move on with her life. Huh!? she's moved on...time for you to move on. it's been 2 years. forget about her and her games. Link to comment
SadOldMan Posted October 23, 2008 Author Share Posted October 23, 2008 It's not like I've been sat here pining for 2 years. Hell, I've done more in the past two years than I'd done in all my life. Dated a couple of women. Had a lot of attention etc. New job, own home etc etc. It's just bugged me. Not once have I contacted her. She wanted out, I accepted this. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted October 23, 2008 Share Posted October 23, 2008 It's not like I've been sat here pining for 2 years. Hell, I've done more in the past two years than I'd done in all my life. Dated a couple of women. Had a lot of attention etc. New job, own home etc etc. It's just bugged me. Not once have I contacted her. She wanted out, I accepted this. Send her letters back "Refused - Return To Sender" Period. Done. Take back your control. Or you'll never be rid of this witch. Link to comment
cs90453 Posted October 23, 2008 Share Posted October 23, 2008 Just keep ignoring her. Eventually she'll get the hint. If she sends you letters, just throw them in the trash without opening them. If you see a message there on your facebook, just delete it without reading it or report abuse to the administrator. They'll send her a warning if she's harassing someone on there. Link to comment
SadOldMan Posted October 23, 2008 Author Share Posted October 23, 2008 I've tried to be civil. Not once have I replied to any of her attempts at contact. I would have thought after all this time, the message was loud and clear. Link to comment
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