swingman39 Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 Hi. I am a male, virgin, and have an embarrasing problem. When my uncircumcised penis is erect and I pull back the skin to reveal the head. I notice there is like a gap between the head and rolled back skin. Now I can't imagine having sex with the penis like that as it sounds painful. Is this normal? Link to comment
SusyQ Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 You'll be fine, from what I've heard uncircumcised men get more pleasure from sex any how Link to comment
alli Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 I think we're gunna need a picture for a better visualization of this. Kidding. It's probably fine but if you're that concerned about it ask your Dr next time you go. Does it hurt when you... you know... oil your baseball glove? You should be using a condom the first time you do it anyway so it shouldn't be a problem! Link to comment
alli Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 Actually I think I know exactly what you're talking about now. You're concerned because the skin gets pulled back so far that it would be overly-sensitive & hurt, right? My bf isn't circumsized either. It's too intense for him when the skin is pulled all the way back during oral but during sex is fine. It also hurts when something dry touches that area the skin normally covers but it's fine during sex because it doesn't get dry. I'm sure you are similar to other uncircumsized men & they can have sex without pain. Link to comment
Aviatormy Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 Go get circumsized Dang I am good! Link to comment
Syntax1985 Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 swing , get checked out. im not saying you have a problem, but i think everyone should get checked out, its not that embarresing to be honest, everyone should aim to do it once every 6 months at least. its not just for stds, you also check health checks down there and discuss any concerns you have, and seriously, it really isnt half as bad as peopel make it out. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 Get it checked out just in case. However, it is probably not a problem at all. Link to comment
Syntax1985 Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 yeah i dont think it sounds that bad, im snipped tbh, so i dunno. Link to comment
ProtestTheHero Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 I wouldn't worry about it until you plan on using it. Link to comment
VTR-RC51 Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 What are you talking about "gap"??? I am uncircumcised and I have no clue what you are talking about. When I am erect and foreskin down, it looks just like any other penis. Link to comment
alli Posted October 20, 2008 Share Posted October 20, 2008 Go get circumsized Dang I am good! I think that would hurt... a lot... Link to comment
swingman39 Posted October 21, 2008 Author Share Posted October 21, 2008 Actually I think I know exactly what you're talking about now. You're concerned because the skin gets pulled back so far that it would be overly-sensitive & hurt, right? Yep that's exactly it. Thanks alot! Link to comment
kenshinkitten Posted October 21, 2008 Share Posted October 21, 2008 My boyfriend is uncircumcised and having sex doesn't hurt him ever with the whole uncircumcised thing. Blow jobs and Hand jobs can be difficult sometimes if I am out of practice, You just have to show her how to work it. Easy. Don't pull back too far or hard, you know that and when you're with someone they will learn that. Link to comment
lady00 Posted October 21, 2008 Share Posted October 21, 2008 Hmm..well one of my exes was uncircumcised and to be quite honest, I don't know what you mean by a "gap." He didn't have anything resembling a gap. I'm confused. Link to comment
swingman39 Posted February 8, 2009 Author Share Posted February 8, 2009 Bump. What I'm talking about is when the penis is erect and I pull back the foreskin past the head, some skin bunches up near the head. I can masturbate easily without pain. I recently had sex for the first time with a condom and it wasn't painful at all. But what worried me is that my penis was hardly sensitive. I was having trouble keeping it hard, and I couldn't come inside. I had to jerk myself off Could this be because of my foreskin or the condom or performance anxiety? ](*,) Link to comment
liquer Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 I'm uncircumscised and believe me you wont have any problems enjoying sex! Far from it, at least you've have more nerve endings! So, it will be the opposite of painful buddy! Link to comment
lost1607307474 Posted February 8, 2009 Share Posted February 8, 2009 Bump. What I'm talking about is when the penis is erect and I pull back the foreskin past the head, some skin bunches up near the head. I can masturbate easily without pain. I recently had sex for the first time with a condom and it wasn't painful at all. But what worried me is that my penis was hardly sensitive. I was having trouble keeping it hard, and I couldn't come inside. I had to jerk myself off Could this be because of my foreskin or the condom or performance anxiety? ](*,) Most likely it is due to the condom (I know my boyfriend often had this problem when we used to use condoms) or your performance anxiety (stress and anxiety are also major causes of not being able to keep it up). I doubt it has anything to do with the way your foreskin is - everybody's genitals look different! Link to comment
Pip-Boy 3000 Posted February 9, 2009 Share Posted February 9, 2009 Unless you stick any foreign objects in it, I dont think you should have a problem. I never have. Plus the inside of a mouth or vagina is so soft and warm, you probably wont feel any pain. Link to comment
Stuffy Nose Posted February 9, 2009 Share Posted February 9, 2009 I know exactly what you're talking about, because I've thought about that too. When my ex started giving me oral, it was a bit painful because she would pull back too far. I told her, and with time she got so good at it that there was no discomfort at all. I don't know what "gap" you're talking about, though.... Link to comment
swingman39 Posted February 10, 2009 Author Share Posted February 10, 2009 I don't know what "gap" you're talking about, though.... You probably don't have it. I mean when you pull the foreskin over the head and some skin bunches up passed the head. Link to comment
gilfer Posted February 10, 2009 Share Posted February 10, 2009 Hi. I am a male, virgin, and have an embarrasing problem. When my uncircumcised penis is erect and I pull back the skin to reveal the head. I notice there is like a gap between the head and rolled back skin. Now I can't imagine having sex with the penis like that as it sounds painful. Is this normal? I'm guessing that the gap you are talking about is the penis neck, the part in between the end of the penis head and at the start of the shaft. Link to comment
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