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I Have Feelings For Someone Else Wh...
I Have Feelings For Someone Else While In a Relationship

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i have a friend, "sarah" and a friend "tom". sarah is married. tom is single. we are all really good friends. tom used to have a thing for me, but he knew i wasn't interested, and i have a boyfriend. anyway, sarah and tom started hooking up. and tom fell "in love" with sarah. tom and i hang out a lot, but usually w/all our other friends. on saturday, he and i went to grab a quick dinner. it was fun. we chatted, i vented about the bf, we made fun of each other. today i told sarah about it. she flipped and ended things w/tom. i guess she and tom an agreement that tom would not hang out w/me one and one, bc it made her insecure and jealous. tom and i are good friends, but for less an a year. sarah and i go back about 8 years and have always been very close. tom doesn't have a lot of friends, i'd say im the closests one he's got. i want to be there for tom. he is goin thru a ruff time splitting w/sarah. at the same time, i don't sarah to be upset w/me for spending time w/him and helping him heal. comments?????

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^ Well the first part I know exactly how it feels to be tangled with a married women who has an affair with a friend. EXACTLY. Sucks huh. I'm sorry but Sarah- has no right, none at all. In this case I'd take sides- absolutely. I'd support Tom, be there for him and help him through his heartbreak.

 

You can't have both. TELL SARAH THAT! She can't be married and keep Tom.

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How would your boyfriend feel about you hanging out with Tom, especially alone, if he knows that Tom has a history of having an affair with someone who has a partner and has also had a thing for you in the past?

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